469 Speed Dating Questions To Get You Started (That Work)

Here is a list of speed dating questions to ask to find out the guys that a perfect for you. Ask these questions to find out that people at the speed dating event that are compatible to you. 

These questions will help you to relax and have a natural conversation when you are on a speed date. 

Try not to just keep asking questions but listen to his answers properly too. If you find a topic that you both are interested in, then spend the time talking about this rather than just asking him loads of questions.

Try to have a natural conversation rather than just asking loads of questions and not talking properly. Try to keep the conversation flowing by asking some of these questions if there are ever any awkward silences, this will help you to make the most of the short time that you have together during your speed dates. 

Use these speed dating questions when you are at the speed dating event. 

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Speed Dating Questions

Fun speed dating questions

These speeding dating questions are perfect to start off with and will let you have a bit of fun on your speed date. 

Try these fun speed dating questions… 

  1. What are your favorite hobbies?
  2. What is your favorite television program?
  3. What is your favorite film?
  4. Who is your favorite author?
  5. What is your favorite book?
  6. Who is your favorite singer?
  7. Who is your favorite band?
  8. What is your favorite sport?
  9. What do you like to do in your free time?
  10. What interests do you have?
  11. Do you like being outdoors?
  12. Do you prefer being indoors or outdoors?
  13. Are you a morning or evening person?
  14. Who is the most interesting person that you have ever met?
  15. What was the last book that you read?
  16. What was the last film that you watched?
  17. What was the last concert that you went to?
  18. Have you ever been to a music festival?
  19. Do you like going to the theatre?
  20. Do you like going to the opera?
  21. What is your favorite genre of music?
  22. What are your top 10 favorite movies?
  23. What are your top 10 favorite books?
  24. What are your top 10 favorite singers?
  25. What is your least favorite book?
  26. What is your least favorite movie?
  27. Who is your least favorite singer?
  28. What is your least favorite sport?
  29. What is the most adventurous thing that you have ever done?
  30. Do you have a pet?
  31. Do you prefer cats or dogs?
  32. What is your favorite animal?
  33. What is your favorite food?
  34. Do you like traveling?
  35. What countries have you traveled to?
  36. What is your favorite country that you have ever been to?
  37. What is your favorite holiday that you have ever been on?
  38. What is your favorite cuisine?
  39. What is your favorite restaurant?

Personal questions to ask someone

Man Smiling Drinking Coffee

Here are some speed dating questions to help you to get to know someone better on a personal level

If you want to develop a personal connection and get to know this guy better then try these dating questions. You likely don’t have much time to talk so these questions will help you find out more about someone quickly. 

Try these speed dating questions… 

  1. How many siblings do you have?
  2. Have you ever been married?
  3. Do you have kids?
  4.  Do you have any flatmates?
  5. Do you live alone?
  6. What is your job?
  7. Is your job your dream job?
  8. What would be your dream job?
  9. What would you do if you won the lottery?
  10. What is your favorite Netflix show?
  11. What is your favorite guilty pleasure tv show?
  12. What is your favorite tv show that you never get sick of re-watching?
  13. What hobby would you love to try?
  14. What activity would you do in the Olympics?
  15. What would your perfect weekend look like?
  16. What would your perfect holiday look like?
  17. Do you speak any foreign languages?
  18. How would your friends describe you?
  19. What is an accomplishment that you are really proud of?
  20. What is the weirdest activity that you have ever done?
  21. What is something that you believe everybody should try at least once?
  22. What is your favorite snack?
  23. What is the best event that happened to you this year?
  24. What would your perfect Sunday morning look like?
  25. Are you interested in art?
  26. What is your favorite museum?
  27. Have you ever been to university?
  28. What is your favorite board game?
  29. What do you do to relax after a long day at work?
  30. What is your most used app on your phone?
  31. What is the cutest animal?
  32. What is the ugliest animal?
  33. What animal are you most scared of?
  34. Who is the most caring person that you know?
  35. What is your favorite object that you own?
  36. What is the most expensive object that you own?
  37. Who are your favorite types of people?
  38. Where is the weirdest place you have ever gone to?
  39. What is your biggest fear?
  40. What is your weirdest fear?
  41. What was your biggest childhood fear?
  42. What is your weirdest dream?
  43. If you could choose any city in the world to live in, where would you choose?
  44. What household chore do you dislike the most?
  45. What nickname do your friends use for you?
  46. What is your weirdest talent?
  47. What is the best piece of advice that you have ever been given?
  48. What is the worst piece of advice that you have ever been given?
  49. What false assumptions do people always make about you?
  50. Do you like teamwork or do you prefer to work alone?
  51. What was the best time in your career?
  52. Do you go to any classes?
  53. Is there any language that you would like to learn?
  54. What is your favorite place in the world?
  55. What is something that most people don’t know about you?
  56. What is the one activity that you find most relaxing?
  57. Do you like going to the spa?
  58. What is the most beautiful view that you have ever seen?
  59. What is the most beautiful place that you have ever been on?
  60. What is the most expensive object that you have ever bought?
  61. What is your favorite object that you have ever bought?
  62. What is the one object that you regret buying?
  63. What situation do you feel most comfortable in?
  64. What situation do you feel least comfortable in?
  65. What is one activity that you recently tried for the first time?
  66. How did you find your favorite artist?
  67. What was your childhood like?
  68. What subjects did you study in school?
  69. Where did you meet your best friend?
  70. What was the decision that made the biggest difference to your career?
  71. If you could go anywhere in the world where would you go?
  72. Would you like to be famous?
  73. What would you be famous for?
  74. How did you spend last summer?
  75. Do you like making phone calls?
  76. What is the one person that you are most grateful for?
  77. What is the most important thing in a friendship?
  78. What is the most important thing in a relationship?
  79. What do you look for in a partner?

Casual speed dating questions

Couple Having Coffee

If you are looking for some more casual speed dating questions to ask your date then try these questions to find out a bit more about him and what he is into. 

Try these casual speed dating questions…

  1. Do you sing in the shower?
  2. What songs do you sing in the shower?
  3. What was the last song that you sang to yourself?
  4. What song can you never get out of your head?
  5. What is one thing that you would like to change about yourself?
  6. What is your favorite thing about yourself?
  7. What is your least favorite thing about yourself?
  8. Do you like to go to the gym?
  9. What is your favorite ice cream flavor?
  10. What is your least favorite ice cream flavor?
  11. Who is your favorite actor?
  12. Who is your favorite actress?
  13. What is one activity that you are really good at?
  14. What is one hidden talent?
  15. Have you ever been married?
  16. What is the weirdest conversation that you have ever had with someone?
  17. Do you prefer to be alone or with other people?
  18. Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
  19. Who is your favorite fictional character?
  20. What is your favorite Disney film?
  21. What is your favorite dessert?
  22. What was your favorite childhood tv show?
  23. What is your favorite smell?
  24. What is one skill that you have always wanted to learn?
  25. What is the best meal that you have ever had?
  26. What was your favorite childhood place?
  27. Do you like public speaking?
  28. What is the most unusual thing that you have ever done?
  29. What do you look for in another person?
  30. What is your favorite place that you have ever been to?
  31. What business would you like to start?
  32. What is the worst movies you have ever seen?
  33. What was the last movie that made you cry?
  34. Have you ever been on a road trip?
  35. How do you spend your time outside work?
  36. How would you use three wishes if they were granted to you?
  37. What are your favorite things to talk about?
  38. Are you religious?
  39. Do you believe in the supernatural?
  40. What thing do you care the least about?
  41. Where would you like to spend your retirement?
  42. Who is the weirdest person that you have ever met?
  43. What is the one thing about you that surprises others the most?
  44. Have you ever been on a sailboat?
  45. What would you do with your time if you never had to sleep?
  46. What job did you dream of doing when you were a kid?
  47. What is your go-to television series if you can’t find something new to watch?
  48. What is the most memorable thing that ever happened to you?
  49. What was your worst first-date experience?
  50. What thing changed your outlook?
  51. What do you do to make yourself feel better if you are having a bad day?
  52. What do you do when you are bored?
  53. What advice would you give to your past self?
  54. How many countries have you visited?
  55. What is the best place to have a picnic?
  56. What is your favorite activity to do outside?
  57. What is your favorite activity to do indoors?
  58. Do you like dancing?
  59. What is your favorite type of dancing?
  60. What is something that you never get sick of?
  61. What is your worst habit?
  62. What is your best habit?
  63. What is the best way to really get to know someone?
  64. What is the last new activity that you tried?
  65. What person in your family taught you the most?
  66. What activity makes you feel the most yourself?
  67. What is the most spontaneous activity that you have ever done?
  68. What do you do just for fun?
  69. What is your favorite activity to do on the weekend?
  70. What is your favorite activity to do on holiday?
  71. What are you looking forward to the most in the future?
  72. What is your favorite guilty pleasure song?
  73. What is the worst job that you have ever had?
  74. What is the best job that you have ever had?
  75. Where did you go on holiday as a child?
  76. What is your funniest story?
  77. What would you study at university?
  78. How much time do you spend on your phone?
  79. What was the happiest time you have ever experienced?
  80. What are the social situations that you hate the most?
  81. What friendship influenced you the most?
  82. What interests you most about other people?
  83. What is your favorite quote?
  84. What is your favorite saying?
  85. What law would you change if you were given the power?
  86. When is the hardest that you have ever worked?
  87. What took you ages to figure out?
  88. What is the weirdest nickname that someone has ever given you?
  89. What is your least favorite place in the world?
  90. What is the weirdest flat that you ever heard?
  91. How would you spend a million dollars?
  92. Who is the best role model that you have ever had in your time?
  93. What is the first thing that you would do if you won the lottery?
  94. What tv shows are you most into?
  95. Do you like crime dramas?
  96. Do you like dramas?
  97. Do you like fantasy?
  98. What is your claim to fame?
  99. Who is your favorite celebrity?
  100. How often do you work out?
  101. How often do you play sport?
  102. What sports do you play?
  103. Do you like watching sports?
  104. Are you more often early or late?
  105. What weird quirks do you have?
  106. What is the weirdest thing that you do?
  107. Do you like to people-watch?
  108. How many different places have you lived?
  109. Have you ever been speed dating before?
  110. What always makes you laugh?
  111. What is your favorite drink?
  112. What do you hope never changes?
  113. What is the most interesting thing about you?
  114. Are you interested in cars?
  115. What is your dream car?
  116. Where would you rather be right now?
  117. What is the most special place to you?
  118. What is your hometown?
  119. Where were you born?
  120. Where did you grow up?
  121. What songs do you know off by heart?
  122. What person always makes you laugh?
  123. What type of music do you like?
  124. What are your favorite restaurants?
  125. What are your favorite bars?
  126. What are your favorite cafes?
  127. What are your favorite parks?
  128. What are your favorite cities?
  129. What job would you be worst at?
  130. What is the thing you hate most about dating?
  131. What is your dating nightmare?
  132. What is your favorite thing about dating?
  133. What is your weirdest dating experience?
  134. What job would you be best at?
  135. What would be your dream job?
  136. What is something that you are determined to do?
  137. What is the weirdest first date that you have ever been on?
  138. What is the first thing that people notice about you?
  139. What do you want to get good at?
  140. Is this your first speed dating event?
  141. What is a great way to get to know someone?
  142. What are your favorite questions to ask someone?
  143. What are your main priorities?
  144. What is your biggest accomplishment?
  145. How long have you known your best friend?
  146. What is the worst first date that you have ever been on?
  147. What skill would you most like to learn?
  148. What is your favorite website?
  149. What was the last thing that you google searched?
  150. What would your perfect house be like?
  151. What is your favorite thing in your bedroom?
  152. What is your favorite movie title?
  153. What age are you?
  154. What is your favorite kind of art?
  155. Do you like visiting museums?
  156. Are you creative?
  157. Do you like painting?
  158. Do you like drawing?
  159. Do you like running?
  160. Do you like doing yoga?
  161. Do you meditate?
  162. Do you like jewelry?
  163. Do you like fashion?
  164. How would you describe your style?
  165. What do you always waste your time doing?
  166. What is your favorite meal of the day?
  167. What is your favorite thing to have for breakfast?
  168. What do you love most about yourself?
  169. What do you love most about your family?
  170. What do you love most about your friends?
  171. What do you love most about dating?
  172. What do you love most about your life?
  173. What do you want to learn more about?
  174. What is your biggest wish?
  175. What is a subject you would like to study?
  176. What is one celebrity you would like to meet?
  177. How do you like to start the day?
  178. What is your morning routine?
  179. What is your evening routine?
  180. Do you like going out?
  181. Do you like going to night clubs?
  182. What is an unsolved case that you would like to solve?
  183. How much has changed in your life in the past year?
  184. What are your goals in life?
  185. What is your favorite day of the year?
  186. What is your favorite season?
  187. What is your favorite month of the year?
  188. What is something that you wish you never knew?
  189. What are your spiritual beliefs?
  190. What is your zodiac sign?
  191. What are your speed dating tips?
  192. What are your favorite dating questions?
  193. What is your favorite genre?
  194. What countries have you visited?
  195. What is the most interesting country that you have ever been to?
  196. What is your best travel story?
  197. What is your best travel tip?
  198. What was the best year of your whole life?
  199. What do you like to do on the internet?
  200. What do you spend all of your time doing?
  201. What do you spend too much money on?
  202. Who can you not take seriously?
  203. Do you judge people?
  204. What annoys you most about other people?
  205. What is something that you do that most annoys other people?
  206. What is your favorite shop?
  207. What is your favorite object to buy?
  208. What is the best compliment that you have ever received?
  209. What is the best compliment that you can give someone?
  210. What is something you can do that most people can’t?
  211. How do you calm down when you are annoyed?
  212. What do you do to cheer yourself up when you are sad?
  213. What do you do to help other people feel happy?
  214. What is something you find funniest?
  215. What is the most beautiful place you have ever seen?
  216. What was your favorite fashion trend?
  217. What event most changed your life?
  218. What is the most memorable book that you have ever read?
  219. What is one saying that stayed with you for a long time?
  220. What scared you the most?
  221. What is the worst book that you have ever read?
  222. Who is the most famous person you have ever met?
  223. Who is the weirdest person you have ever met?
  224. Who is the funniest person you have ever met?
  225. What was your favorite ever trend?
  226. What is your favorite city that you have ever been to?
  227. Do you prefer the countryside or the town?
  228. When was the last time that you climbed a tree?
  229. Are you a free spirit?
  230. Do you worry about much?
  231. Do you often get angry?
  232. What was the last time that you cried about something?
  233. What was the last time that you were really happy?
  234. What is the best piece of furniture that you ever bought?
  235. What is the best restaurant you have ever eaten at?
  236. What is something special about the place you grew up in?
  237. Who is your favorite person?
  238. What is your favorite place?
  239. What do you cherish most?
  240. What scares you most about dating?
  241. What is the most fun you have ever had?
  242. What do you not mind spending money on?
  243. What is the most expensive piece of clothing you have ever bought?
  244. What would you be famous for?
  245. What fictional place would you like to go to?
  246. Do you like playing video games?
  247. What is the most relaxing place that you have ever been to?
  248. What is your favorite holiday that you have ever been on?
  249. What is the most famous person you have ever met?
  250. What do you like to do for fun?
  251. What is something that most people don’t know about you?
  252. Are you interested in politics?
  253. What is the most heartwarming act that someone has ever done for you?
  254. What is the most famous piece of art that you have ever seen?
  255. What is the most interesting museum that you have ever been to?
  256. What is the most interesting piece of art that you have ever seen?
  257. What is something that you miss?
  258. What piece of modern technology do you most dislike?
  259. What piece of modern technology do you most like?
  260. What old fashioned thing do you miss?
  261. What do you miss about your childhood?
  262. Would you go hang gliding?
  263. Would you go whitewater rafting?
  264. Would you go skydiving?
  265. Do you like extreme hobbies?
  266. Do you like going on outdoor adventures?
  267. What is an accomplishment you are most proud of?
  268. What is something you have done that you are not proud of?
  269. What do you like about speed dating questions?
  270. What speed dating questions funny do you like?
  271. Who has impressed you the most?
  272. How do you like to relax?
  273. How do you like to spend your evenings?
  274. What popular movie do you hate?
  275. What popular tv show do you hate?
  276. Do you want to have kids?
  277. Do you want to get married?
  278. What do you most want to know about me?
  279. What job would you be really good at?
  280. What is a hidden talent of yours?
  281. What childhood pets did you have?
  282. Where would you choose to spend all of your free time?
  283. What do you enjoy doing?
  284. What adventure would you like to go on?
  285. What do you find boring?
  286. What is the perfect way to spend a weekend?
  287. What do you truly enjoy doing?
  288. What are you most passionate about?
  289. What is the best way for someone to spend their time?
  290. What is your world view?
  291. Do you support a charity?
  292. How do you want to improve your self?
  293. What do you do to practice self-care?
  294. What is something you want but you can’t afford?
  295. Have you ever been speed dating before?
  296. What is your favorite topic to talk about?
  297. What is the most interesting conversation you have ever had?
  298. What is the luckiest moment in your life?
  299. Have you ever suffered a bad injury?
  300. What is the best story that you know?
  301. What are the small things that make you really happy?
  302. What do you do every day to make your days better?
  303. Do you prefer coffee or tea?
  304. What are you most looking forward to in the future?
  305. What plans do you have for the future?
  306. What goals do you have for the future?
  307. What is your favorite outfit that you have ever worn?
  308. What is your favorite piece of clothing that you own?
  309. What was your favorite piece of clothing as a child?
  310. What is your most treasured memory?
  311. What is your first memory?
  312. What is your worst memory?
  313. What is your most annoying habit?
  314. What is the most annoying habit in other people?
  315. What strange habit annoys you the most?
  316. What video game do you most like to play?
  317. What movie world would you most like to live in?
  318. What is your most impressive talent?
  319. What is your weirdest skill?
  320. What is the best book you have ever read?
  321. What is the best tv series you have ever watched?
  322. What questions would you most like to be answered?
  323. What is the weirdest topic that you are interested in?
  324. How did you decide on your career?
  325. What country do you never want to return to?
  326. What is your worst traveling experience?
  327. Where do you usually go on holiday?
  328. Where do you usually go at the weekend?
  329. What are you most looking forward to in the future?
  330. What question that other people ask you annoys you the most?
  331. What do you care most about?
  332. Who do you care most about?
  333. What accent is your favorite?
  334. What is the worst way to start a question?
  335. What is the worst question to ask when speed dating?
  336. What topic could you talk for the longest time about?
  337. What is the most amazing place you have ever seen?
  338. What hobby would you like to get into if you had more time?
  339. How many hours a night do you sleep?
  340. What do people usually ask for you help with?
  341. What is something that you think everyone should do at least once?
  342. What is something that you have been putting off for ages but you haven’t got around to it?
  343. What job would you most like to try for a day?
  344. What is your go-to artist to listen to if you can’t decide on music to listen to?
  345. What is something that you couldn’t live without?
  346. What luxury item do you own?
  347. What is something that loads of people are obsessed with but you just don’t get it?
  348. What would you win a medal for at the Olympics?
  349. What would your dream house look like?
  350. What would your dream garden look like?
  351. What would your dream holiday entail?

On The Whole… 

If it is your first time going to a speed dating event you may be unsure of what questions to ask each date. This list will give you a great idea of some speed dating questions to ask in order to find out more about each guy!

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