Signs Of An Aquarius Man In Love (5+ Obvious Hints And More)

Are you falling deeper and deeper in love with an Aquarius man?

Are you dreaming of the moment he says ‘I love you’?

Perhaps you’re holding back on saying it yourself, because you want to know where he stands in the relationship?

If so, this guide is the perfect place to be. It reveals the six most obvious hints of love that Aquarius men tend to show. 

But before we begin, it’s important for you to read the following sentences very carefully. 

Recently, I discovered a powerful aspect of the male brain that very few people seem to know about.

When I first read about this part of male psychology, I became fascinated and read more and more.

It turns out this part of the brain plays a huge role in deciding how attracted men become to the women in their lives. 

It’s called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’

I’d urge you to learn more about it – because learning how to trigger how this part of the male psyche changed my life. 

I used to be the woman that men would only want ‘casual’ relationships with. Now, when we hang out, they can’t help but become ADDICTED to me. That’s because I know how to withdraw the most amazing emotions in their brain. 

If this sounds like a skill you want to learn, click to read my guide on how to unleash the power of the ‘Hero’s Instinct’. 

Of course, this gorgeous Aquarius might already be in love with you. Scroll down for the most obvious signs that this is the case.

Aquarius Man Characteristics

The Aquarius man is one that you will never forget. They are intellectual, love deep conversations and are known for being extremely caring when they are in a relationship.

An Aquarius man is more likely to marry and not divorce Aquarius women, but other girls do stand a chance with this man. These guys have plenty of characteristics that make them relationship material. 

On the other hand, it can take some time to be in a relationship with an Aquarius man. Aquarius men are also known for being cold and distant at first. It can take time for them to open up to you, and even longer for them to fall in love.

If you’re interested in a man with this zodiac sign, you need to learn more about them so that you can understand them, and it will make it a lot easier to figure out whether an Aquarius man likes you back. 

Aquarius Man Traits

Aquarius Man Traits

An Aquarius man is the definition of unforgettable. This man will carry all the awesome traits that air signs are known for, like being good at communication, but he also has the spontaneous nature of a man that is ruled by Uranus. A relationship with this man is never dull.

Creative Intellectual

Aquarius men are known for being both open-minded and intelligent. This makes them ideal for creative careers, and for love and relationships. Because they are so open-minded, they will be quicker to have conversations so that you two can problem solve your way through the trials that come with every relationship. 

He Goes Against the Grain

An Aquarius man is known for going against the grain. They are the quirky zodiac signs that everyone loves to be around. Forget thinking inside the box and doing the same old thing when you are in a relationship with an Aquarius man. Instead, they will find a way to break boring routines with spontaneous adventures. They love exploring new things and ideas, so get ready to go outside your comfort zone.

Social Butterflies

Social Butterflies

An Aquarius man is instantly the life of the party. They are the one that loves to mingle, get to know other people and an Aquarius man will always love a deep conversation. Aquarius men often feel self-conscious because they are known for being the odd man out, but once they warm up and are comfortable, get ready for some fun.

Men that have already overcome their nature to be an oddball are known for showing off. They highlight their quirkiness and use it to get more attention. If you’re not comfortable being the center of attention, this might bother you. Since an Aquarius man can go either way, make sure you get time to know them so that you know which end of the spectrum they are on. 

Introverted Side

Introverted Side

It might sound like this zodiac sign is instantly extroverted and always on the move, but that is not the case. They are social creatures, but always love a nice evening at home cuddled on the couch too. You’ll enjoy a nice mixture of both in this relationship. You can go out for an evening or spend some quality time at home and an Aquarius man will be happy either way. 


Aquarius men are full of life and appealing traits, but most of those traits come from their intellectual side. This also helps an Aquarius man to process his emotions better than most other people. While this might lead to a higher emotional IQ, it can also lead to less romantic moments.

This is not the sign to give sporadic, grand expressions of love in a public place. They are, in fact, known for not being over the top. This is because they are more detached from their emotions than most other signs. For example, an Aquarius man in love will pick you up for a journey to somewhere you want to travel versus filling an entire room with dozens of flowers or sending a teddy bear bouquet to your work.


You wouldn’t expect an Aquarius man to be empathetic because they seem to lack emotions at times, but their high emotional intelligence makes them more empathetic than other people. An Aquarius man will talk to you about your problems, take the time to ask questions to understand how you feel, and they will empathize with you. This is also one of the signs an Aquarius man is in love, or on his way there. If you’re just a friend, an Aquarius man will empathize, but he will go above and beyond if he considers you a love interest. 

Love An Aquarius Man For Who He Is

Love An Aquarius Man For Who He Is

If you’re interested in an Aquarius man, don’t bother trying to change him. Instead, you’re going to have to love him for who he is. We all go into relationships with that intention, but try to change a few quirks along the way to make us more compatible with them as a couple. This is not going to work with an Aquarius. If anything, it will make them head for the hills.

Aquarius is a fixed air sign. This means that they are creatures that enjoy freedom. They want to be themselves, and they will need plenty of space as they get sucked into their creative ideas and adventures. If you attempt to change an Aquarius, they will feel trapped and shut you out.

How Does An Aquarius Man Fall In Love?

As an intellectual that does not express his feelings, an Aquarius man will not tell you when they are falling in love. Instead, there is a process for these men falling in love. They tend to get to know their partner and fall in love slowly over time. As more time passes, they will grow to love their partner more.

Analyzing the compatibility

During the talking stage, that period of getting to know each other, an Aquarius man will start to analyze everything you do to see if the two of you are compatible. This might sound like a test, and it is to some degree. If you pass, you get to date one of the most caring zodiac signs. It’s important to know that while an Aquarius analyzes what you do or how you act, they are obviously already interested in you or they would not waste their time with this step. 

Physical Compatibility

One of the things that an Aquarius will look at is physical compatibility. He’ll want to know that you are compatible both in and out of the bedroom, so he’ll probably want to try out the goods before getting to the relationship stage. If you’re not compatible, it’s a waste of his time, and that is time he could be spent doing other things.

Physical compatibility outside of the bedroom is equally important. Women that are clingy and require constant affection outside of the bedroom will make an Aquarius feel trapped. An Aquarius man loves his freedom, so he will want to have space when he needs it out of the bedroom and plenty of chemistry in between the sheets.

It’s important not to misunderstand this, though. An Aquarius man in love will enjoy affection, like hugs and snuggling. A man in love will want to be close to his partner. However, an Aquarius man in love will not want to snuggle on the couch for endless hours. It’s important that he has a nice balance.

Intellectual Compatibility

This sign is known for intellect, and they want something more out of the conversation than the latest TMZ news. Celebrity gossip and makeup trends are not going to cut it with this sign. Instead, bring your A-game to the conversation with theories, science news, and interesting facts. These guys love intriguing conversation, and that’s what they’ll use to assess your intellectual compatibility.

If you’re not the intellectual type, don’t expect him to lose interest. Instead, he might try to bring up new topics to pique your curiosity. This is actually one of the signs an Aquarius likes you. 


Stability is important to anyone in a long term commitment, but especially an Aquarius man in love. While they get to know you, they’ll look at how you act to determine whether you will be in it for the long haul. If they are under the impression that you will bounce at the first bump in the road, they will not open up and get to know you on a deeper level. If they think that you can provide the stability that they want in a relationship, they will slowly let their guard down to get to know you on a deeper level. This is when you will find out who they really are on a more intimate level.

An Aquarius falling in love is more of an analytical process than an emotional one. They will want to see who you are as a person, make sure that the two of you are compatible, and then they will decide if they want to continue a relationship with you. It doesn’t mean that this is a process devoid of any emotion or feeling, though. It simply takes longer than it will with other signs. Patience is key with an Aquarius.

Throughout this process, feelings will develop and they will slowly fall in love. It takes weeks or months for this to happen. If you are one that jumps into relationships quickly, an Aquarius might not be for you. 

What Are The Obvious Signs Of An Aquarius Man In Love?

What Are The Obvious Signs Of An Aquarius Man In Love?

Because an Aquarius does not show their feeling in grand gestures like other signs might, it can be hard to determine whether an Aquarius likes you or not. After all, how do you figure out whether they are having those long talks to analyze your personality or because they are done with that and have decided that they like you as a person? It can be hard, but these signs an Aquarius man is into you will help you decipher his actions.

1. Time Spent On You

If there is one thing that this guy values it is time. They have plenty of creative projects and ideas that they could be working on, so they only devote extra time to something that is important to them. If an Aquarius went from one phone call before bed to texting throughout the day, it is one of the biggest signs an Aquarius man likes you as more than a friend. You’re no longer in the analyzing phase when he starts to spend more time on you or with you. 

2. He Goes The Extra Mile

He Goes The Extra Mile

An Aquarius man is extremely emotional and caring, but he hides it surprisingly well until he starts to really like you. Once he starts to like you, you’ll notice that he goes the extra mile. This is the stage where you will get caring gestures and sweet text messages. These guys don’t do all that in the beginning. Instead, they have to like you before they put in the extra effort. 

3. He Lets You Inside His World

An Aquarius has a private world that is full of creativity and intellectual conversations, but they won’t let you in it until they want something more with you. They value their privacy, so if an Aquarius lets you inside their world it means that they like you more than a little bit.

4. You Are His New Fascination

You Are His New Fascination

An Aquarius doesn’t just like things, they become fascinated with them. If your Aquarius friend is fascinated with and notices things about you, that’s a sure-fire sign that this man likes you. He will notice things that another man might not, like your favorite shampoo, perfume, your new hairstyle and more. It might seem a bit stalkerish, but this is their non-conformist way of expressing interest in you. 

5. You’re His Bestie

Aquarius is a sign that values friendship, but that is different than a best friend. If this man tells you that you are his best friend, the man loves you. If an Aquarius shares things with you that he would never tell his other friends, or in any way implies that you are his closes friend it is one of the most obvious signs that he really likes you. 

6. He Wants To Share Things With You

Aquarius people are known for liking a variety of things that are not inside the box, like a cool new science museum that they feel curious about. If he likes you as more than a friend, he’ll invite you along. This is him wanting to share his interests with you.

If he invites the entire group along, don’t misinterpret things. Aquarius doesn’t like to get too close to people, so it’s common for them to invite the group along. If he likes you, he will make sure it’s just the two of you.

These are some of the most common signs that an Aquarius likes you. If you’re not already dating and have just finished the talking stage, read on to learn what you can expect when you are dating an Aquarius man in love. 

Dating An Aquarius Man

Dating An Aquarius Man

Dating one of these men can be quite a treat. An Aquarius man in love will listen to everything that you have to say, breaking every stereotype there is about husbands ignoring their wives. Not only will they listen, but they also will support you as much as they can. This is one of the signs that this man likes you, and you’ll get to enjoy all the support you need. There are a few things that you need to know before jumping into a relationship with an Aquarius man, though. 


In a world where loyalty has been forgotten by some, it can be a breath of fresh air to date an Aquarius. These men are loyal to their partner and rarely stoop so low as to cheat. Instead, an Aquarius man will consistently stand by your side, through this and thin. If there is one thing that an Aquarius is known for in a relationship, this one is it. 


Along with that loyalty comes a degree of faithfulness that every woman wants in her man. Few signs can live up to that, but the Aquarius can. An Aquarius man will communicate with you and try to solve problems before this man will cheat on his partner. Of course, there are exceptions, but it’s important to remember that those are exceptions, not the rule. 

He’ll Be Your Best Friend

Not only will he treat you like his best friend, but he will also be yours too. No one will listen to you as an Aquarius male can, and he will stay like that as long as he doesn’t put his walls back up. He will support you, ask questions to make sure he understands you and an Aquarius male will help motivate you more than anyone else can. 

Spontaneous Activities

Spontaneous Activities

If there is one thing this man doesn’t like, it’s a boring routine. Keep in mind that they like to think outside the box, so being spontaneous should be expected. Think of a random bouquet of flowers, funny kinky jokes and a random trip to an awesome destination. Their adventurous side might be a bit much for stable signs that prefer to plan things to handle, but they can tone it down to compromise with you. 

Things To Remember

An Aquarius man is full of amazing things. They will inspire you intellectually, be committed, and they will help you solve your problems in the most empathetic way possible. While you are getting to know an Aquarius man, there are a few things that you need to keep in mind. These guys are known for some wonderful things, but they also have a few traits that can lead to misunderstandings. 

Aquarius Men Love Their Space

It’s important to remember that an Aquarius man will need his space. This doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you or want to spend time with you, though. Sometimes, they can get sucked into new hobbies or a new creative interest, which can lead you to believe that they are no longer interested. Instead of assuming the worst, simply remember that they need their space and your man will text you when he has time. 

You Need To Be Independent

An Aquarius man needs his space, which means that you need to be independent. If you are clingy and too dependent, it will make him feel trapped. Often, women want something to work so badly that they will pick up a new hobby, etc. in the beginning. Unfortunately, if this isn’t who you really are, you’re going to wind up miserable. In order for this relationship to work, you need to be independent.

He Needs Support Too

An Aquarius man might be known for providing support, but it’s important to remember that this man needs support and love too. When he is working on a new project, show some interest in it. Ask him questions, give your man a back rub at the end of a long day and make sure that he knows that he has your love and support. If he feels that he is not loved and supported, an Aquarius man will slowly start to back off.

In Summary…

Now that you know all about our in’s and out’s of Aquarius men, tell us what you think! Did you like the list? Please add your own opinions in the comments to help other women that are taking the plunge with an Aquarius man.

Leave a Comment