Are you in a relationship with someone or you have been dating a guy for a while but you are worried that he is seeing someone else or he has feelings for another woman? Have you noticed that he has recently been paying you the attention and you have suspicions and doubts that he is not just interested in you but has feelings for someone else too?
Do you feel like his attention towards you has lessened recently? Has he been acting differently to normal? Do you think his recent change in behavior maybe because he has become interested in someone else? Are you worried that his attention has switched from you onto someone else that he has developed feelings for?
- 1 Why Are You Having Doubts?
- 2 Signs He Has Feelings For Another Woman
- 2.1 1. He seems less interested in you lately.
- 2.2 2. He’s less affectionate.
- 2.3 3. He’s been talking about someone else a lot.
- 2.4 4. He hides things from you.
- 2.5 5. He spends all of his time on his phone.
- 2.6 6. He’s suddenly busier at work.
- 2.7 7. He is acting suspiciously around someone.
- 2.8 8. He spends more time on social media.
- 3 In Summary
Why Are You Having Doubts?
Maybe you are worried that he may be experiencing feelings for another woman and you will be replaced by her. You are uncertain as to whether your relationship with him is still stable or whether is he about to tell you that he has feelings for someone else and that he wants to break things off with you so that he can see this other woman.
If you have these kinds of feelings and doubts then you need to find out what is going on with your man. If you have suspicions that your man is thinking of or has feelings for another woman then you need to find out whether this is really the case or whether you have made up this scenario in your head and you really have nothing to worry about.
Even if there isn’t anything going on with your man your doubts and concerns will surely drive you away from him anyway. If you are suspicious of him and even if nothing is going on with him and another woman then this alone will surely break up your relationship. There is no way to have a stable relationship if you cannot trust your partner completely.
If you are suspicious and paranoid about the fact that your man has feelings for another woman then this will not likely disappear until you know the truth and you have proof that he is not interested in anyone else but you. This paranoia will ultimately ruin your relationship until you figure out what is really going on with your partner.
Here are the signs that indicate that your man may have feelings for someone else.
Signs He Has Feelings For Another Woman
1. He seems less interested in you lately.
If you are worried that your man may have feelings for someone else then one of the telltale signs of this may be that he seems less interested in you lately and he has been paying you less attention lately. If this reflects his recent behavior towards you then there may be a chance that he has feelings for someone else.
If you are the only one he is interested in he will show you all of his affection and attention. If he is usually an affectionate guy but recently this affection towards you has waned, then there may be something going on. If cannot explain this decrease in affection in any other way, then he may be developing feelings for someone else.
If he really loves you he would never stop showing you his love and attention. He would do everything he can to make you feel loved and secure in your relationship with him. He will never make you feel insecure or unstable with him by your side. If you have a strong and stable relationship with that person he will show you his attention.
If your guy has stopped listening to what you are telling him or your physical relationship has suddenly become none existence then this may be one thing that you should be worried about. It appears that his attention is focused on something else and not you. While this may be explained by stress or worry, if not, he may be focusing his attention on someone else.
2. He’s less affectionate.
If your man is usually physically affectionate with you and this has suddenly stopped then there may be a reason for this change in his behavior. If he normally kisses you on the forehead in the morning and gives you a hug when he walks past you and he no longer does this, then there may be a reason for you to worry whether his attention has left you.
If he shows less physical affection towards you then there may be someone else that he is giving his attention to you. If he has been acting in this way towards you recently and he is no longer affectionate towards you then he may have lost interest in your relationship and is instead focusing his interest and affection elsewhere.
If you know that your man has been really busy lately or he is really stressed about a work matter or something to do with his family, then this may explain his distant behavior of late. However, if he is usually extremely affectionate with you and this has suddenly ceased then there may be cause for concern about where his attention lies.
3. He’s been talking about someone else a lot.
If your guy has started to develop feelings for someone else, then this may be all that he is thinking about and it will probably be difficult to hide what he is feeling. When one is interested in someone they usually don’t stop thinking about then and want to tell everyone about them. Even though he may be trying to hide this, he may not be able to.
He might be trying to avoid revealing to you the feelings he has developed for someone else. He may be trying to control these new feelings that he has developed. But you may notice that he mentions this person’s name a lot, or talks about her while you are having a conversation. If this person is someone he never talked about before then you may need to worry.
If this person is one of his friends that he spends a lot of time with and has always mentioned her during conversations then there is probably no need to worry. However, if this person is new in his life and he suddenly won’t stop talking about her then there may be a reason for you to be concerned about his behavior.
4. He hides things from you.
If you used to have a really open and honest relationship with this person and now he is hiding things from you, then you may be worried about what caused this change in your relationship. Maybe you used to talk about absolutely everything and you shared every single one of your thoughts and feelings with him.
You had a completely open relationship with this one another and there was nothing that you didn’t tell each other. You could share absolutely everything with this person without worrying about judgment. But now he is no longer sharing things with you and you are worried about why he is no longer talking to you like he used to.
There may be a chance that he has feelings for someone else and he is distancing himself from you. If he has feelings for someone else apart from you then you may have noticed a change and a difference in your relationship with him. He may be emotionally distancing himself from you because he is confiding in another person.
If you are worried that your partner may have feelings for another woman and he has suddenly stopped being open with you, then there may be cause for your concerns. If you used to share everything with him and he has suddenly stopped being open with you, he may be emotionally distancing himself from you because he has been confiding in another woman.
5. He spends all of his time on his phone.
If you are worried that your partner may have developed feelings for someone else, one of the signs may be that he spends all of his time on his phone. This is especially true if your guy used to be someone who hated being on his phone and didn’t use to spend hours scrolling social media or texting people.
If you have noticed a change in his habits you may be questioning: “does he have feelings for me” or whether he has feelings for someone else. If your guy has suddenly started spending all of his time on his phone and texting someone then there may be a reason to worry if this is not usual behavior for him.
If he is always getting message notifications or he is constantly texting someone then this could be one of the signs that he has feelings for another woman. If he used to always give you all of his attention when you went for dinner dates but now he doesn’t make eye contact and instead spends all of his time on his phone, then you may need to worry about what is going on.
This is especially true if he is acting strangely when he is on his phone when you are around, or he puts his phone away as soon as you enter the room or he refuses to answer phone calls when you are near him. This may be one of the signs that he has developed feelings and is interested in a different woman.
Maybe you ask him who called him and he acts defensively then this may be one of the signs he is fighting his feelings for you and has developed feelings for another person. If he is acting in this way he probably hasn’t received a call from work that he feels like he needs to hide from you.
6. He’s suddenly busier at work.
If your man is experiencing love for a different woman, then you may have noticed that his schedule has suddenly gotten extremely busy for no apparent reason. If he is unusually busy and has not given you a believable explanation for this sudden change in his schedule then there may be a reason for you to worry that something is going on.
If you have been spending less time together lately or he has less time to go on dates with you, then something may be going on with him. If he was usually always available or always prioritized you in his schedule and is no longer doing this then there may be cause for you to be concerned about what the reason for this is.
If he has suddenly become more unavailable than ever and he has no real reason why then it may be because he is seeing someone else. This is especially true if he works during the week but is no longer free at evenings or weekends either. If this is the case if may be time to confront your boyfriend about what is going on with him.
If he is telling you that he is really busy at work but this doesn’t really make sense, then there is probably something going on. If you feel like something is wrong then there probably is. If he has suddenly become really busy and unavailable to go on dates with you then it may be because he is interested in someone else.
If he is in love with you and wants to have a serious relationship with you then he will make time and prioritize you in his life, no matter how busy he is. If he really wants to be with you, then he will make an effort to keep you in his life. If he is not doing this then there may be a reason for it, he is either no longer interested, or is interested in someone else.
7. He is acting suspiciously around someone.
If you notice that his behavior changes around a certain woman, that he cannot make eye contact with her and he acts strangely when she is around, then there may be a chance that he has an interest in that person. If he acts suspiciously nervous and strangely around someone in particular then something may be going on between them.
This is especially true if he is normally a really confident guy and is completely secure in himself. If he is acting in a way that is completely at odds with his normal behavior then there may be something going on between him and this other woman. He may have developed a strong interest in her that explains his weird behavior.
Does he stumble over his words when this person is around and you have never noticed him do that before? Or does he try and act in a certain way that seems like he is trying to impress this person? If you have noticed this kind of behavior in your boyfriend when a certain person his around, then this may be a sign that something is going on between them.
If your partner is usually the type of guy that never spends much time on social media, he never posts photos or likes your photos, and he has suddenly starting to spend much more time on Instagram and Facebook than usual and is liking a certain someone’s posts then there may be something going on between them.
If he never usually goes on social media, and he never usually bothers to like his friend’s posts and he is suddenly liking all of the photos that someone posts, then there may be something going on.
If he is someone that spends all of his time on social media anyway, then there is likely no reason to worry about this behavior. It is only if his behavior massively changes that may be a cause for you to be concerned. If you don’t have any other concerns or reasons to worry then don’t pay much attention to his social media activity.
However, if you already have suspicions that he likes someone else, and you have an idea who she is and you have noticed that he is paying a lot of attention to her social media, then your concerns may have a foundation. If he comments on all of her photos and likes everyone, it might not be anything, however it may be a reason to worry.
This is especially true if you have noticed other things about his behavior that have made you worry about whether he has developed a love for another woman. Taken alone, it may not mean anything at all. If you have been experiencing doubts about other things then this may be just one more thing that adds to your suspicions.
If you are worried that your partner has become interested in another woman, then these signs may help you determine whether you really have cause for concern or not. Let us know your experiences and don’t forget to share this article!
As hopeless romantic I struggled tremendously in my love life. After many years of searching, trial & error, and countless failed relationships, I finally found my Mr. Right. It wasn’t an easy road, but one that has taught me an incredible amount about the workings of relationships between men and women, and this is what I hope to share through my writing on this blog.