441 Effective Sexting Messages & Examples To Send To A Guy

Are you looking for examples of spicy messages to send to a special guy?

Perhaps you’re looking for the perfect text to convince the man of your dreams to come over? 

Or something special to spice up your existing relationship? 

Either way, this is the perfect guide for you. It’s packed with HUNDREDS of examples of sexting messages to drive a man wild with desire. 

However, before we get into our list, I have a short story for you.

I always used to be the woman who knew all the sexy little tricks to gain a man’s interest…

The problem was: I could never keep it. 

This drove me crazy, as I knew I was girlfriend material. I was pretty, feminine and pleasant to be around, but something just wasn’t sticking. 

Thankfully, I managed to turn that all around when I discovered a primal aspect of male psychology called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’. 

This relatively unknown part of the male mind is primarily responsible for a man’s feelings of attraction towards women.

Once you know how it works and how to manipulate it, you can make men ADDICTED to you forever. 

I know this, because I found an online course teaching women how to do that. This course completely transformed the way that men perceive me. It changed my dating life for the better, and that’s why I had to share it with you (see my personal blog post to learn more).

Learning about how to control a man’s ‘Hero’s Instinct’ will do far more than learning any clever trick or special line.

That’s not to say these aren’t useful for gaining a man’s interest in the first place. 

So, with that in mind, let’s now take a look at my favourite sexting lines to drive a wild man with lust.

The Perfect Timing

These messages are great for special occasions too, such as the anniversary of your first date or your wedding anniversary. Send him one of these messages to mark the occasion and ensure that he knows how much you love him and care for him. 

He will feel so loved when he receives these messages from you, you will make his day. If you are wondering what are the best messages to send to your guy then keep reading. Here is a list of messages to make him happy and make him miss you. 

You can send these messages to your crush, your boyfriend or your husband. Any guy that you are interested in will appreciate these messages from you. You will be on their mind for the rest of the day. 

Make him think of you and miss you even more by sending him these sexy text messages. Just send him one of these sexy texts and he won’t be able to get you out of his head. Send these messages if you want to ensure that he is thinking of you. This is a great way to keep their interest and ensure that you are all that he can think about all day. 

Sexting Messages To Send To A Guy

A short message can brighten up his day and put him in a good mood. These messages are perfect if you want to make him happy. 

1. You are my whole universe
2. I would be nothing without you in my life
3. I just wanted to let you know that you are on my mind just now
4. I just wish that you were holding me in your strong arms right now
5. I love you so much more than I can ever explain
6. At the thought of you, my heart beats so hard
7. I have butterflies in my stomach when I think about being with you later
8. You make me feel safe when I am with you
9. Your body feels like my home
10. You have stolen my heart
11. I cannot imagine living my life without having you with me
12. I will never forget our first night together
13. I lose myself in your eyes
14. I love you more every day

Cute sexy texts to send to your guy

Show how much you love him and how much you care for him by sending him something sweet to show him just how much he means to you. 

15. I’d do absolutely anything just to make you smile 
16. I’d do absolutely anything to be with you right now
17. I am so happy you are mine
18. You are my universe
19. I will always love you
20. You are always so amazing to me
21. I’d be nothing without you
22. Every day that I get to spend with you is like a dream
23. My heart swells when I think about you
24. I’ve never met anyone like you
25. No-one’s ever made me feel love just the way that you do
26. I am counting the seconds until I see you next
27. It is as if we were born for each other
28. You are complete me
29. You are the part of my life that I didn’t realize I was always missing
30. I will always pick you, every time
31. Every fear and worry that I have goes away when you hold me
32. I can’t stop thinking about you
33. I want to know how much you love me
34. You are one of the best things that have ever come into my life
35. I can’t stop thinking about last night
36. You are so cute
37. Just thinking of you makes my days better

Flirty messages to send to your partner

Here are some flirty messages that are perfect for sending to your partner. Try sexting him these messages to ensure that you are always on his mind, he will not be able to get the thought of you out of his head. 

38. My heart aches 
39. I wish I had you right here with me now
40. I want you to be here right now
41. You were in my dream last night
42. I won’t ever be able to tell you in words how much you mean to me
43. I won't ever be able to express how much I love you
44. I’m so blessed to have you
45. I am so lucky that you are both my friend and my partner
46. Forever with you is not enough time
47. I wish you were here to hold my hand
48. I wish you were here right now to hold me close
49. You have been in my thoughts since last night
50. Thank you for an amazing night 
51. I miss you so much
52. I did not know that I would ever miss someone so much 
53. You are the definition of amazing
54. I hope you are having a good day
55. I cannot get enough of you
56. I want to see you right away

Text messages to send to your guy to ensure that you are always on his mind

Here are some messages that are perfect for sexting to your boyfriend to ensure that you are always stuck in his head. He will feel loved and appreciate and won’t be able to wait to see you. 

57. To me, you are like something of a dream
58. You feel like heaven
59. You are always on my mind
60. You always manage to make me happy
61. I’m so happy when I think about you
62. I can’t wait to see you later
63. You are my soulmate
64. You are my forever
65. I feel like I am the luckiest person in the universe
66. I’m so excited to kiss you later
67. I want to wake up next to you every morning 
68. I have dirty thoughts about you
69. Would you like to try something new tonight?
70. I want to try so many things with you
71. You’re so hilarious
72. You never fail to make me happy
73. I am so thankful to have you in my life
74. I am so lucky to have you by my side

Cute messages to send to your guy

Here are some cute messages that are perfect for sending to your boyfriend to show him just how much he really means to you. He will feel so loved and adored by you. 

75. Nobody makes me laugh like you 
76. I am the luckiest girl in the universe to have you in my life
77. I am so happy that I met you
78. Thank you for always looking after me
79. Thank you for always being there for me
80. I don’t know what I would do without you in my life
81. I can’t stop thinking about you today
82. Takeaway tonight?
83. I hope you know how great you are
84. I love how perfect our relationship is
85. You are my prince charming
86. You are my knight in shining armor
87. You are the most handsome man that I have ever seen
88. I am crazy about you
89. I am head over heels in love with you
90. I wish we were cuddling right now
91. It always brightens my day just to think about you
92. Hey, gorgeous
93. I had such a good time last night
94. I wish I could spend every minute of every day with you

Messages to brighten his day

95. You are so handsome
96. Do you want to go for dinner later?
97. You are all I can think about
98. I can’t sleep because I can’t stop thinking about you
99. I always smile when you text me
100. You take my breath away just to look at you
101. You are the most amazing person that I have ever met
102. Are you real or a dream?
103. No one is able to understand me the way you do
104. I want to be in your strong arms 
105. I want to kiss you
106. I can’t wait to see you
107. I miss you so much
108. I need to see you later
109. How has your day been?
110. Everyone is jealous of our relationship
111. All of my friends want a boyfriend like you
112. How long do I have to wait before I can see you again
113. I am so glad I met you
114. You are so smart
115. Can we spend the entire day together tomorrow?
116. Nobody is like you
117. You are so unique to me
118. You’re so cute in your recent photo
119. Can you cuddle me all night tonight?
120. You are my entire world
121. You are so perfect
122. You never stop amazing me
123. I can’t imagine my life without you
124. I don’t want anyone else but you
125. I don’t want to live without you
126. You brighten my whole life like no-one else
127. Come over tonight
128. You are my cute lobster
129. You give me butterflies
130. I love you so much
131. I have so much adoration for you
132. You’re so cute
133. You’re adorable
134. I love the way that you smile
135. I love the way that you make me feel
136. You are the most amazing guy that I have ever met
137. Good morning handsome
138. I haven’t stopped thinking about you all-day
139. I have been thinking about you since last night
140. I can’t wait to see you later
141. I can’t wait to see you tonight
142. How are you doing?
143. How has your day been
144. I love you forever
145. I will never stop loving you
146. Hello handsome
147. I hope that you are having a nice day
148. Just sending you a text to remind you how much I love you
149. I can’t wait to see you today
150. I can’t get you off my mind
151. I can’t get you out of my head
152. You always brighten my day
153. I really miss you
154. Can I see you?
155. Can I cook for you tonight?
156. You always improve my days
157. I am so blessed to have you in my life
158. Let’s do something that you have always wanted to try
159. I hope that you had a good time last night
160. You are so great
161. I haven’t stopped smiling since the first day that I met you
162. I knew you were special when I first met you
163. You are the one for me
164. I will love you every day
165. I will love you until forever
166. Let’s watch a movie tonight
167. I have a surprise for you later
168. Do you want to have lunch together today?
169. Yesterday was amazing
170. I keep thinking about our date yesterday
171. I’ve been waiting all day just to see you
172. You’ve been on my mind all-day
173. I am so lucky to be with you
174. I want to marry you
175. I want to spend the rest of my life with you
176. You are the best boyfriend in the universe
177. I can’t wait for our future together
178. Everything that has happened in my life has led me to you
179. You are so great
180. I want to grow old with you
181. I want to make your bad days better
182. Wine tonight?
183. I’ll make your day better
184. Do you want a spontaneous date night tonight?
185. You are mine
186. You are forever mine
187. You are the love of my life 
188. You have the most beautiful eyes
189. I think I am falling in love with you
190. I am obsessed with you
191. I love the way that you laugh
192. I love you exactly the way that you are
193. I would never change any of the things about you
194. I love every part of you
195. I miss you already
196. I want to spend all of my time with you
197. Good night handsome
198. Goodnight my love
199. Goodnight darling
200. Hello handsome
201. Hello my love 
202. Hello darling
203. You have shown me what true love is
204. I can’t wait to be in your arms later
205. Let me cook you dinner tonight
206. You’re so handsome
207. I am so lucky to be with you
208. I am having so much fun getting to know you
209. I can’t wait to learn everything about you
210. I never want to stop loving you
211. Our first date was the best day of my life
212. I’m so glad I met you
213. I am always thinking of you
214. You are one of the first things I think of when I wake up in the morning
215. You are one of the things that I dream of
216. You are one of the last things I think of before I go to sleep at night
217. You’ve been on my mind all-day
218. When I close my mind all that I can think of is you
219. You looked so handsome yesterday
220. I will always be there for you
221. I will always be there when you need me
222. I will always support you
223. Let me look after you
224. I am so grateful that you came into my life
225. I don’t know what I would do without you
226. You make me feel safe
227. I love the way that you make me feel
228. Do you want to watch a movie with me tonight?
229. My love for you is so strong
230. You are one of my favorite things in the universe
231. I love you more than you will ever know
232. I love you to the moon and back 
233. Thinking of you always
234. You bring out the best in me
235. You are so sweet
236. I love everything about you
237. You are so special
238. You are everything to me
239. I wish I could see you right now
240. I would do anything to make you happy
241. You are perfect to me
242. You are perfect for me in every way
243. I appreciate you
244. Thank you for everything you do for me
245. Just wanted to tell you that I love you
246. You make me a better person
247. You are so kind
248. You are so generous
249. I love how you look after me
250. You give me butterflies inside
251. You make me feel so content
252. You’re my best friend
253. You are the best boyfriend in the universe
254. I can’t help but smile whenever I think of you
255. You make me smile every time I see you
256. Waking up next to you is one of the best things in the universe
257. I wish I could spend every minute with you
258. We were meant to be together
259. I haven’t stopped smiling since I first met you
260. You always put a smile on my face
261. I love everything about you
262. I am crazy about you
263. We make an amazing team
264. I am falling for you
265. I’m missing you so much right now
266. You are the most gorgeous man that I have ever met
267. I want to cuddle with you right now
268. I can’t ever get enough of you
269. I can’t stop smiling because of you
270. You are the reason I am so happy
271. I love making you smile
272. I love being the reason you are happy
273. I want to wake up next to you every morning for the rest of my life
274. You are so handsome
275. I think I am falling in love with you
276. I think I like you
277. I am crazy about you
278. I have never felt this way about someone before
279. You make me feel special 
280. I want to be with you forever
281. You’re the person I think about the most
282. You complete me
283. I am falling so deeply in love with you
284. You have stolen my heart
285. You make me crazy
286. You make my heart beat so strongly
287. I love you more than anything
288. I love you so much
289. You are the most handsome man that I have ever met
290. Wine and a movie tonight?
291. I hope that you have a wonderful day
292. You are so wonderful
293. I am falling completely in love with you
294. I hope that  you have the best day
295. You brighten up my life
296. You are the man for me
297. I will always love you no matter what
298. Nothing will ever come between us
299. I will always be there for you
300. You are perfect
301. I would do anything for you
302. I love when you give me hugs after a long day at work
303. I really like you
304. I am constantly thinking of you
305. I think I have a crush on you
306. You are my fantasy
307. You are my dream guy
308. You are the cutest
309. Do you believe in love at first sight?
310. I have so many plans for us tonight?
311. Everything about you is so perfect
312. I will always be by your side
313. I love the way you hold me 
314. I’m so blessed to have you in my life
315. Waking up next to you makes my day
316. Your messages make my day
317. I love the way you smell
318. I love the way you hug me
319. Come back soon
320. Nobody makes me laugh as hard as you do
321. You always make me feel so happy
322. Thank you for always being you
323. I love the way that you look when you smile
324. You make me feel so happy
325. You are the guy that I have been waiting for my whole life
326. I love thinking about our future together
327. Just letting you know that I’m thinking of you
328. Thinking of you
329. I love how you make me feel happy after a stressful day at work
330. I love being in bed with you
331. I love how handsome you are
332. You are irresistible to me
333. Your arms are my happy place
334. No matter what happens, I will always love you
335. I love you for being you
336. You are the thing that I think of the last thing at night
337. I am happier because you are in my life
338. Thank you for making me so happy
339. Thanks for always managing to make me smile
340. I love lying in bed with you
341. I’ve never been happier than I have been since I met you
342. You are dreamy
343. You stole my heart
344. I am so lucky that you chose me
345. I love you more today than I did yesterday
346. You make me so happy
347. I smile randomly just because I think of you
348. I get so excited when I think of you
349. You make me feel safe
350. Thank you for always supporting me
351. You are the one I love
352. You have my heart
353. I love you more every day
354. You are the first thing I think of when I wake up in the morning
355. My favorite days are the ones that I spend with you
356. All I can think of is you
357. Hello gorgeous
358. I never want to lose you
359. You make me feel as if I am in a dream
360. I love sexting with you
361. I can’t believe you are mine
362. You mean so much to me
363. Nobody has ever made me feel the way that you make me feel 
364. I love the way that you love me
365. You’re the best boyfriend that I could ever ask for
366. I am so happy that I have you in my life
367. What did I do to deserve you?
368. You’re always there for me
369. I love our sexy messages
370. You make me feel so secure and safe
371. I am so comfortable with you
372. I am so grateful that I can tell you everything
373. It is so easy to talk to you
374. I am so proud to call you my boyfriend
375. You mean the world to me
376. You mean everything to me
377. I don’t know how to put into words how I feel about you
378. I don’t know how to put into words how much I love you
379. Everything makes me think of you
380. You are my first thought in the morning and my last thought at night
381. You have opened up the world for me
382. Thank you for making me see the world differently
383. I love our sexy texts
384. I just wanted to tell you how much I love you
385. I love everything I have with you
386. I want no-one else but you
387. I love the sexual tension between us
388. I only ever want you
389. It’s only ever been you
390. I loved you since I first set eyes on you
391. I knew we had something special since the moment that I met you
392. You brighten up my world
393. I am a better person because of you
394. I can’t remember what my life was like before I met you
395. You are part of me
396. I fall in love with you more and more every day
397. Every day I fall more in love with you
398. You mean everything to me
399. You are my sweetheart
400. You are my whole world
401. I don’t know what I would do without you
402. You are the most amazing guy
403. Thank you for always taking care of me
404. I couldn’t ask for a better partner than you
405. These past few months with you have been the best time of my life
406. I am so grateful that we are able to grow together

Love texts that are perfect for sending to your partner

407. You have made me who I am
408. Thank you for always putting up with me
409. You are the best thing that ever happened to me
410. You are the most amazing person in the universe
411. You treat me better than anyone ever has
412. I never want to spend another day without you
413. I am so excited to spend the rest of my life with you
414. I love you forever and always
415. I love you with everything that I am
416. The world is more beautiful because you are in it 
417. I am always here for you
418. You are amazing
419. You are so sweet and caring
420. You are so funny
421. You know exactly how to make me happy
422. I couldn’t ask for a better partner in life
423. I can’t picture my life without you
424. You are my best friend
425. You are my rock
426. You are my one true love
427. I love the sexy text messages that you send me
428. I don’t know what I’d do without you
429. What would I do without you?
430. You are the most amazing thing that has ever happened to me
431. You make me smile every single day that I spend with you
432. We can handle anything together
433. I love you with all my heart
434. I love you, sweetheart
435. You give me butterflies
436. You make me speechless
437. I am so lucky that I met you
438. I love our long-distance relationship
439. I love the sexy text that you send me
440. I love the dirty texts that you send me
441. I love that you always make sure that I am happy

To Sum Up…

If you want to make your partner feel extra special and loved, try sending him one of these flirty messages to tell him that you can’t get him out of your head. Let us know what you think in the comments and don’t forget to share this article!