Are you sick and tired of dealing with ‘players’?
Are you done with one-night stands and casual relationships with guys who don’t care about you?
Are you ready to leave all that drama behind and enjoy a deeper, meaningful relationship with a great man who loves you?
If so, you’re in the right place.
This is my story of how I discovered the ‘secret to true love’.
For years, it felt like I couldn’t help but attract time-wasters into my life.
The seemingly perfect men who promise you the world, only to get bored and leave after a few weeks.
This pattern would continue for years. Meaningless fling after meaningless fling.
No matter what I did, I couldn’t find a man to remain faithful, nor pay me the attention I felt I deserved.
It made me feel useless. I felt like I’d miss out on my dream of starting a loving family.
But I wasn’t going to sit around and let that happen. I was a strong intelligent woman, who had always worked hard to get what I wanted from life.
And I was willing to do whatever it took to solve this problem.
It took a lot of research. I consumed so many mainstream dating guides, packed with the most obvious tips.
But it was all worth it.
Because I eventually stumbled across the information that would transform my life.
A video guide on a little-known aspect of male psychology called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’.
Below, I’m going to share what the ‘Hero’s Instinct’ is, why it’s so important and how I learned to manipulate this part of a man’s mind.
However, I first need you to commit to read the entireity of this article very carefully.
Because I know how painful it can be wasting time on meaningless relationships and praying that the next guy takes you seriously.
I want to help YOU end that pattern.
To do that, you’ll need to understand the nuances of this story.
So, before we go any further, please remove all distractions and focus on learning for the next few minutes.
We All Have ‘Blind Spots’
I honestly had no idea what it would take to convince a good man to commit to me.
I was in shape. I dressed well. I was pleasant to be around and had a good sex drive.
I’d built a promising career and had an amazing group of female friends.
They’d always reassure me that I was a catch.
Whenever a guy broke it off with me, we’d get together and blame him. He was a moron. A ‘good guy’ would come soon enough, we’d say…
But, deep down, I knew the common denominator was me.
There had to be something I was doing (or not doing) to make these guys disappear. A ‘blind spot’ ruining my chances of a happily ever after.
But, I never committed to looking for it.
Instead, a new guy would come along and I’d convince myself that this time it would be different.
It’s so easy to put off this introspection, because searching for your flaws is so painful.
Most people have to hit ‘rock bottom’ before they do it.
And that’s what almost happened to me…
A Mission To Save My Relationship
I was so excited to be dating Joseph. And he was clearly smitten too.
We had so much in common. We both felt the butterflies whenever we hung out. I could truly be myself around him.
But, after a few weeks, I began to notice the same signs.
Less affection. Slower reponses to my texts. Becoming less available.
It felt like the same nightmare was unfolding in front of my eyes.
But I wasn’t going to sit and let it happen again. Not with Joseph.
The prospect of losing him forced me to bite the bullet – and begin searching for a solution to his problem.
After work, I would be desperately scurrying through dating advice websites.
But most of them were basic blogs, filled with the most unhelpful information.
Why was this happening to me?!
I tried to convince myself I was over-reacting. But I knew there was a problem that needed solving.
This couldn’t be a coincidence, after so many years
I just needed to find someone who had the answer to my problem.
A real dating expert who actually understood the psychology of men in love. Someone who knew what they really wanted.
After days of scouring the web, I finally found a writer who impressed me.
James Bauer had been studying the psychology of dating and relatrionships for over a decade. The articles on his website were unique and based on scientific evidence.
I spent the whole evening devouring the information. Everything on what men want made sense based on my previous experiences. This guy was clearly the real deal.
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It felt like I was seeing into a whole new world. The real world.
Suddenly, I could see the mistakes that had scuppered my chances of a loving relationship.
James also told stories that clarified why my friends had blown their shots at a happy ending. If only we’d all found his blog sooner.
After a few hours of reading, I then discovered some advice that all women looking for relationships need to hear.
“When a man feels as if you have an agenda, as if you’re trying to trap him in a relationship, his defenses naturally activate. Often, it’s unconscious, but it’s ridiculously common.
“His instincts begin to suggest you’re not “The One”. They point out your flaws. You become this selfish woman trying to steal his freedom. It’s here that he shuts down his emotions. He puts up a brick wall and will do anything to avoid a deeper emotional connection.”
He was surely right! This is why Joseph was becoming distant – and a host of men before him as well.
After years of men pulling away from me, I was now trying too hard to lock them down.
“Whenever a man feels as if a woman is trying to get something, he’ll put up the blockers. It’s as if he’s under attack! At this point, it’s almost impossible to get through to him. It’s Kryptonite for your relationship.
“Ïronically, it’s when you want him most that you unknowingly sabotage yourself. The more he closes himself off, the more you chase his affection. The problem gets worse as you stress about his lack of investment until he eventually pulls the trigger and leaves.”
This made so much sense.
But it brought up the question: how can a woman tie down an amazing man into a relationship?
James explained: “Once a man sees you as “The One”, everything changes. Suddenly, you’re not this evil woman trying to steal his freedom. You’re the perfect partner he’s been desperately searching for.
“At this point, he won’t worry about losing his freedom. In his eyes, a relationship with you is far better than anything romantic ‘freedom’ can provide him.”
From here, James began his life-changing advice about a man’s ‘Hero’s Instinct’.
This was the key to him perceiving a woman as ‘The One’.
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I learned that the ‘Hero’s Instinct’ is a primal instinct seemingly held by all men.
When a woman can trigger the part of a man’s psyche, it can reveal all sorts of powerful emotions within him. He can begin to feel overwhelming feelings of pride, power, purpose and joy.
These are the feelings that man long to experience in a long-term relationship.
Naturally, if a woman can continuously put him into this state, he’ll begin to feel an inevitable emotional bond.
At the time, very little research had been completed into this aspect of psychology.
But James had been studying ‘The Hero’s Instinct’ for several years, and had created an online course teaching women how to activate it within the men they wanted.
I was so impressed with his free articles that I invested in the course straight away.
It turned to out be the best purchase I have ever made…
The course was heaving with useful information about the male psyche, separated into short and simple lessons. This information was crucial for understanding for The ‘Hero’s Instinct’.
- The subtle indicators of femininity that men find irresistible.
- How to make men chase your rapport.
- How to regain their interest when they begin to tire of you.
- The emotional blocks that men put up – and how to break through them.
- How to separate yourself from every other woman, in his eyes.
Most importantly, I devoured the step-by-step guide, explaining how to consistently activate a man’s ‘Hero Instinct’.
It was simple to learn, but the results were like nothing you’d ever believe.
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I hadn’t seen Joseph in a few days, but it still felt like I knew so much better.
After intensely studying James’ course, it felt like I knew all men better than they knew themselves.
On our next date, I applied the steps I’d learned in the course.
Before long, his interest in me was burning hotter than ever before.
Wow, I wasn’t expecting the advice to work this well or this quickly!
That was just over two years ago.
Since that moment, our feelings for each other have continued to rocket upwards.
Fast forward to the present day and…
- We’re still together and still treating each other with the passion of highschool sweethearts.
- Joseph is always making considerate romantic gestures, for seemingly no reason. He is always looking for new ways to show his affection.
- I feel completely fulfilled within our relationship. My insecurities and paranoia have washed away. I feel lighter. I’m sure he feels the same!
I can’t thank James enough for fixing my dating life once and for all.
But this article wasn’t just written as a token of gratitude to him.
I wrote it for you – and all other women experiencing the same fears and heartache I was.
This is the solution to your problems.
I introduced this course to a handful of my friends and they all experienced the same mind-blowing results.
If you’re ready to experience the deepest most loving relationships of your life, James has created a video explaining his course in more detail.
I believe every woman should watch this video. James can explain the power of the ‘Hero’s Instinct’ far better than I will ever be able to.
The video features snippets from the course, which can help improve your relationships today.
(Click the play button to watch the video)
Before you take in this video, here are three guidelines to make sure you get the most out of it:
- Make sure to watch it all in one go. It’s difficult to make sense of the information unless you consume the whole video.
- Remember that this information should only be used on men you’re serious about dating. Don’t abuse it.
- Share this video with your friends who are struggling to attract a great boyfriend. You can change their life as well as your own.
As things stand, just a tiny percentage of women are aware how a man’s ‘Hero’s Instinct’ works.
This means it’s currently easier than ever to be perceived as ‘The One’ in a man’s eyes. This is your opportunity to make an impact that no woman has ever made on your dream man.
Perhaps that will change as this information becomes more widespread. Who knows?
Either way, I’m sure you don’t want to waste one more day without understanding the secrets of making men fall in love.
I’m sure you’re sick and tired of thinking you had your ‘happy ever after’, only for Prince Charming to get bored and leave.
And that’s why I’m urging you to watch James' incredible explainer video now.
This could be the beginning of your happy ending.
Best of luck!