There is no way anyone in a relationship right now would tell me they have never been in a situation like this before. Or that partner of yours in your present relationship has been with you since the very first time you started dating? Not sure only if both of you just started dating.
There is no need of beating around the bush just to confirm whether or not this has happened to anyone. But I’m very certain you must have heard someone say she just broke up with her ex.
If yes, can you tell the person how to move on and what he should look out for to confirm truly if the ex has moved on? Well, I’m certain it’s only those, who have been in a situation like this, can actually give a reply to the question.
For you to get enlightened on whether your ex is pretending to have moved on or not, keep reading along.
How Do You Tell If Your Ex Has Moved On?
Wait before this sounds like a shock to you, it’s time for you to start noting down the various signs you should look out for that confirms that truly your ex has left you behind and you should do the same thing.
1. No More Contact
This is usually the first sign that proves that there is an issue with a relationship and both parties must either try to resolve it or something else will happen. It’s kind of normal if the girl doesn’t call the guy because most times, it’s the duty of the guy to make himself available to the girl.
In a relationship where there is a misunderstanding between the guy and the girl, the tendency that both parties won’t call, text or even send messages to each other is very possible, especially for the guys.
If your partner has been incommunicado for one week or more, you should know he doesn’t want to be with you anymore and he needs to move on. At least, he should have called you if they are busy with work, but instead of giving a call or even picking the call when you try to reach them, they ignore you.
You don’t need to worry so much when this happens, just move on!
2. He Encourages You To Date Someone Else
Can you imagine the guy or girl that claims to love you wholeheartedly is advising you to not to consider him or her anymore; instead get a new life with someone else. When your partner gives you the go ahead to get into a new relationship, you should know it’s no longer a joking matter, but something serious.
It’s a sign that he is no longer interested in dating someone like you anymore and you should move on. He is trying to encourage you to get a new life with a new person. If this is what you are facing currently in your relationship after the last disagreement with your partner, it means your ex moved on and you need to do the same.
Your ex knows how you might feel like when he breaks the news to you that they want to let you go and you need to do the same. So what he does is he will start giving you the word of courage so as to ensure you do the same thing he has done.
3. He Asks For Some Of The Things Back
When someone whom you are thinking you could spend the rest of your life with requests for the things they’ve done for you while you people are still dating each other, it’s a sign that they want the relationship to end and you should both move on.
If someone is thinking of breaking up with his or her partner, both parties can always find a way to sort out things. But when the guy starts requesting things he has given to the girl, it means both parties need to go their separate ways.
There is never a need to force conversation or anything without someone. If your guy or girl avoids you by not visiting you or going to places where they know you usually go to, it means he is avoiding you and you need to let go of your mind about everything concerning them.
When that partner of yours does this consistently, it means your partner has moved on with someone new.
To confirm your ex moved on already, he might start flirting around with other girls. Your ex might do this because he has little or no regard for you anymore, and he does not really care. Once you notice this, I don’t think there is a need for both of you to be back together.
Now that you can answer the question “has my ex moved on?” It will be better to also know what you should do when such a scenario occurs.
What To Do When Your Ex Has Moved On?
Just like how boring conversations end with the singular letter “K”, breakups seem like singular moments in time. It’s never easy to let go of something like this from the mind. But once it happens, you just need to move on.
Well, I’m pretty sure you might be asking yourself right now “how do you move on?”
This is not an easy task but at the same time, it’s not very hard. All you need is to be as strong as possible and try to do these things:
- Try to focus on your life goal.
- Don’t appear dirty or unkempt. Ensure that you take good care of yourself and look good as often as possible.
- Try to check on your behavior. Was the cause of the separation or your partner? Make sure you check this out.
- Eliminate any negative thinking.
There is a lot to do when this kind of thing happens to you. Some of the what you need to do include:
1. Learn to move on after the separation.
2. Have a positive mindset.
3. Adjust your behavior.
The key factors in a relationship include communication, attention and time. If these factors are absent, the relationship can’t stand. If an ex has moved on you can easily tell because he won’t create time which is very essential for communication. And communication shows that one party is still giving the other attention.
It’s a normal thing to feel hurt when your ex has moved on after an issue has occurred which led to your separation. The reason why most people get hurt when this happens is because they can’t just leave their past behind and move forward.
This means a lot to some people while others just overlook it. But it’s really worrisome to see the person you were so fond of each other just move on immediately after you people separated. Why this kind of thing happens is because your ex has a case of rebound relationship.
One of the signs your ex is pretending to be over you is when he isn’t in a new relationship with any other person. This shows he still cares about you and both of you can come together.
I hope the information provided in this article helps. Remember if the relationship doesn’t work out, you just need to walk out of it. Instead of being moody and depressed over your partner’s decision to move on, try to do check yourself, eliminate negative thinking, and move on with your life.
As hopeless romantic I struggled tremendously in my love life. After many years of searching, trial & error, and countless failed relationships, I finally found my Mr. Right. It wasn’t an easy road, but one that has taught me an incredible amount about the workings of relationships between men and women, and this is what I hope to share through my writing on this blog.