Whether you’re just getting to know somebody and trying to attract them, or you’ve been in a relationship for years, it’s important that you make your man blush. Although making someone’s cheeks flush seems like a small thing to focus on, it’s actually incredibly significant, and can make for a happy, long relationship.
If you are around guys who blush, it means that you have made them feel an array of happy, positive emotions, depending on how you’ve made them blush.
For example, if you’re teasing him sexually, then he will feel happy because he’s wanted by you, or if you’re complimenting him, he’ll feel flattered. Therefore, if you make your guy feel flustered then you are making sure he associates you with positive feelings, which means he’ll want to be around you more.
However, it can seem daunting trying to make a man’s cheeks flush, after all, it’s normally men themselves that know how to flatter women. But don’t worry if you don’t know what to do, we have got you covered, and we’re going to share the 6 best ways to make your guy blush!
How Do You Make Him Blush?
1. Compliment Him
It shouldn’t come as a surprise that complimenting somebody will most likely make them blush! Everyone loves to be complimented, even those that pretend they don’t, because it’s just nice to hear kind remarks about yourself.
In a relationship or in a budding relationship, compliments are even more important because you are telling your partner why you are so into them, and what all of the reasons are that you like them.
So, complimenting your man is definitely a great way to make him feel flattered and flustered. You can choose to compliment him on anything from his looks to his handyman skills, but just make sure you say it with integrity and with passion.
For example, you could say something like, “you are so unbelievably clever, thoughtful, and kind. You really do inspire me so much.”
2. Tease Him In Public With Your Touch
If you are trying to make your man flustered, one of the best ways and most obvious ways to do that is with your touch. You can very easily tease your man with your touch and by doing so, adrenaline will flow through his body, his heart rate will increase and his cheeks will flush.
It’s more impactful if you tease your partner in public, so you can try stroking the inside of his leg as you sit having dinner out, or you can use your fingertips to circle gently on his skin. If you tease your man in public, he’s going to not only get excited and blush, but he will have one thing only on his mind for the rest of the time you’re out – getting you home!
3. Send Him A Cheeky Text Message
Even when you’re not around, you can make your man’s cheeks flush and therefore make sure that he’s still thinking about you. If you are at the stage in the relationship of being both intimate and comfortable with each other, you can send your man a cheeky text message to get him going.
It’s completely up to you what you say exactly, but you can tell him what you want to do to him when you next see him, remind him of a recent rendezvous or allude to the fact that you’re thinking about him.
If you are in a committed relationship where you trust this person, you could also send him a naughty photo of yourself in a cute new outfit or underwear set. After receiving any type of text with this cheeky tone, his cheeks will flush and all he will be thinking about is you.
4. Leave A Love Note For Him
Another way to make your man blush whilst you’re away is to leave a love note for him to find. Love notes are one of the most romantic things to receive, and it’s not just women that think so. Any man will have their heart melted by a love letter, and their cheeks will certainly turn red.
So the next time you are going to leave your man’s house, leave a little love note somewhere you know he’ll find once you’ve left. Let him know exactly how you feel about him, always keeping it passionate and romantic. When he finds it, he’ll feel like the luckiest man alive and he’ll wish you were there so he could show you how much he appreciates it.
5. Hold Eye Contact With Him
You can make your man flustered and excited without even saying anything to him if you know what to do. We can communicate a lot with our body language, in particular with our eyes.
All you need to do is hold eye contact with your man, and look at him with sultry emotions. There’s something really special and intimate about making eye contact for a long period of time.
You can always say something romantic to him whilst you are holding eye contact in case you feel awkward, but let your eyes tell him how you feel. He will definitely get hot under the collar and probably even a little nervous, leading to flushed cheeks and butterflies.
6. Whisper To Him
Whispering is one of the most intimate forms of communicating with someone when done right, and it can be a great way to get your guy all flustered over you.
The close proximity of your lips on his skin whilst you whisper to him will not only send electric round his body, give him butterflies and make his cheeks flush, but it will also make him think about kissing you.
So, the next time you want to say something romantic or intimate to your man, you can whisper into his ear rather than just speaking to him. You can also do this in a public place to tease him, but regardless of where you do this, he’ll find it difficult to control himself and you’ll definitely make him blush.
Depending on which way you choose to try and make your guy’s cheeks flush, just accompany the right words. Complimenting him is the most commonly known way to get a man to feel flattered, so tell him how much you admire him for something he does. You can also dirty talk to him, speak intimately with him, and tell him how much you love him.
Guys blush because of the same reason women do – they feel flattered, turned on, or/and nervous. The nerves that they feel cause adrenaline and their blood flow increases. It really depends on each specific man as to what exactly makes their cheeks flush, as one man might be triggered from being whispered to, while another might find compliments make him blush.
After reading this article and taking a look at the 6 easiest ways to make your guy blush, you will hopefully have a good idea about how to get someone’s pulse racing and make those cheeks flushed! You can try each way to see what works best for you and the blushing guy, but overall you can try to compliment him, tease him, tell him how much you love him, whisper something to him, dirty talk with him, and use your body language.
It’s really important that you can make a guy flustered and flattered- a blushing man is a happy man! When somebody blushes due to being flattered, feeling happy, or being turned on, they are feeling positive emotions and if you are the person that caused them to feel this way, he’s going to want to spend more time around you because you make him feel great.
If you are trying to melt a guy’s heart only using words, you simply need to let him know how much you adore him. Depending on the seriousness of the relationship, you need to tell him how much you appreciate him and tell him about all of the little things he does that make you smile and make you feel grateful to know him. Tell him how no one compares to him and how much of an amazing person he is.
Now you know some of the easiest ways to make your guy blush, go and give some of them a try. Remember, each man is different, so they will respond differently, but as soon as you find what makes him blush, make sure you use it and keep him by your side. Enjoy seeing guys blushing!
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As hopeless romantic I struggled tremendously in my love life. After many years of searching, trial & error, and countless failed relationships, I finally found my Mr. Right. It wasn't an easy road, but one that has taught me an incredible amount about the workings of relationships between men and women, and this is what I hope to share through my writing on this blog.