How To Attract A Scorpio Man (5+ Little-Known Tips)

Do you have a cool Scorpio man in your crosshairs?

Are you looking for the best way to attract him to want to become your partner?

These passionate charismatic men tend to fall for certain types of female behaviors and I have listed the best ones for you below.

But before we begin, I would love to tell you a personal story that you may find very useful. Read carefully…

Back in my younger years, I had absolutely no idea how to attract a man to be my boyfriend. 

I could hook up with a few great guys, but none of them would want to stick around. 

Worst of all, I had no idea why this was happening. It’s not as if I was a horrible person! 

Thankfully, I figured it out – and I want to share how I did it.

It all began when I learned about a little-known part of male psychology known as the ‘Hero’s Instinct’

The more I learned about this primal instinct, the more I realized how important it was towards the attraction they felt towards women.

When a woman can trigger this part of a man’s thinking, she can release all sorts of incredible feelings inside him; power, joy, purpose and meaning.

These are the emotions that a man truly desires in a relationship – and I learned how to draw them out of men all the time.

I went from being viewed as a quick hook-up to being seen as a man’s OBSESSION. My relationships with men are now so much more loving, passionate and meaningful. 

You can find out more about how I learned this skill by reading this blog post.

If you only want tips to attract a Scorpio man into your life, scroll down for the rest of our guide.

Scorpio Man's Traits

Everyone knows that amongst the Zodiac signs, Scorpio’s are undoubtedly the most alluring and complicated signs out there. Not only are they deeply emotional and they keep their hearts heavily guarded, Scorpio’s are the most difficult people to begin a relationship with.

The Scorpio man’s attention is hard to get, and it’s even harder to make this man fall truly in love with you. So if you have decided that the love of your life is a Scorpio man, be prepared to be dedicated to your cause.

A Scorpio will settle for nothing less than true love in a relationship, and he will know if you are on his level. Luckily you have us to help you understand a male Scorpio’s personality, and what attracts them above all.

Important Things To Know About Scorpio Men

Before you embark on your quest learning how to attract a Scorpio man, there are some things you need to know about their personalities. Learning how to attract a Scorpio man isn’t the hard part of getting a Scorpio man to fall in love. The trick is to learn how to handle him so that you can keep him.

Scorpios are passionate water signs, and they are most compatible with earth and air signs. According to astrology, fire signs and Scorpios don’t normally mix well. But that is no reason not to try. Knowing the next few things might be helpful when it comes to learning your way around a Scorpio.

Scorpios exude sexual energy.

Scorpios exude sexual energy

This particular Zodiac sign is ruled by the planets and elements of sexuality. Scorpio’s attract many suitors. They are confident, naturally sexy and absolutely unashamed to flaunt it. And when they are on the prowl, they are generally looking for someone flaunting their sexy side too.

A word of caution, when you are first trying to win your Scorpio man’s heart, it’s no doubt you will have competition. So until you ensnare his attention, try not to take it personally if they continue to be wild and free. Until a Scorpio decides to settle down, everything is a challenge and Scorpio males usually win, especially in the sexuality department. And jealousy can be endearing once a relationship is established, it will not help you attract the Scorpio man.

He is deeply passionate about literally everything he does.

If a Scorpio doesn’t care for someone or something, they make it obvious. It doesn’t matter if it's a hobby, his career, or the woman who has caught his eye, the Scorpio male holds nothing back. Not only are Scorpio men passionate to an extreme, but they are also very sensitive.

Being a macho man like the Scorpio isn’t as easy as it looks when you feel things as intensely as they do. The trick to understanding and loving a Scorpio man is understanding just how deep his feelings go, and the correct way to handle the situations presented to you by them. Once the Scorpio man decides that he’s in love with you, he will never give you a reason to doubt him.

The Scorpio man will appreciate a partner who is equally as passionate as he is. So if you really want to know how to attract a Scorpio man, then express yourself! Sharing passion about things in common, or seeing your passion for something will fuel his attraction for you.

Scorpio man is extremely intense to deal with.

Scorpio man is extremely intense to deal with

Because of his deep passion and sensitivity, the male Scorpio can come off as intense, and a lot of his positive characteristics may seem negative. Passion can come off as extremely jealous or possessive, hurt sometimes gets translated into anger or brooding.

True forgiveness is sometimes unheard of among Scorpio men, and they mask their insecurity and uncertainty with abrasiveness or callousness. Once trust has been broken, it will always be hard to get back. Understand that a Scorpio can go from one extreme to another in the blink of an eye, depending on the mood and atmosphere and situation. And his ferocity can even be directed at his loved ones when he has been crossed.

No one is more confident about what they want than the Scorpio man.

And no one does a better job at chasing after what they want than a Scorpio man. From career ambitions to life goals, the Scorpios are good at figuring out what they want and how they want to get it. That being said, they never just jump into anything.

Scorpio men like to test the waters, ponder intensely on the matter at hand. In regards to relationships, they will most likely want to start out as friends or take it really slow. Scorpio men don’t have a tendency to just jump into relationships due to the fact that they aren’t looking for any kind of temporary love.

When the Scorpio man decides to settle down, he’s looking for the real deal and final solution. The Scorpio man will hold his partner to no lower expectations and doesn’t like his time to be taken for granted or wasted.

Scorpio man is indulgent in personal pleasures.

Simple pleasures and leisures are something he lives for. Sometimes the Scorpio can become selfish and over-indulgent, leading to bad habits. But the Scorpio is resistant, and they eventually learn self-control.

He is a man of extreme privacy.

Scorpio men enjoy their solitude and they will sometimes keep little secrets. Don’t let that fool you though, he will always be forward and honest with you. If you feel like your Scorpio love is brooding over something, feel free to ask, and let them know that you’re there for them – but don’t pry.

When you try to force the issue, Scorpios tend to shut down and lock up. He will eventually let you in but on his own terms. Scorpio males expect the same of their partners too, it’s always better to be upfront – but in order to attract this passionate Zodiac, you want to be mysterious too.

The Scorpio man is an inquisitive creature, and it will be his life ambition to know you better than you know yourself once you’ve caught his eye. A woman who doesn’t put everything out there is more likely to steal the heart of the scorpion king.

Scorpios are naturally intuitive and can see right through you.

 It is best never to lie to Scorpio, especially a male. They don’t forgive easily, and lying is the ultimate betrayal to the Scorpio man. By nature, Scorpio men overthink and overanalyze. They are extremely intuitive and can sense dishonesty.

Scorpios are commonly empathic, being a sign that is ruled by emotion. So being dishonest with your Scorpio man or putting up a facade is never a good idea. Scorpios are genuine zodiac signs, and they will tolerate less than sincerity from the person they want to be with.

Nothing angers a Scorpio more than dishonesty and disloyalty.

 And there is nothing they dislike more than someone who wastes their time. When a Scorpio man decides to love someone, they put their entire heart into their relationship.

A Scorpio will sacrifice friendships, and pause everything for the woman they fall for, so if that trust and love is betrayed only the Scorpio woman rivals the wrath that could befall you. As mentioned before, Scorpios are extremely emotional and passionate, so when they are hurt they do not forgive easily.

To attract a Scorpio man, make sure to make eye contact, and always be genuine about your intentions, as they could never fall in love with someone they feel like they cannot trust.

It takes patience and understanding to get to know the Scorpio man.

They feel things more deeply, and express them in displays of extremes. He will be devoted to you, but if you betray him the Scorpio man can become spiteful and vindictive and can even be cruel.

However their complexity can be a Scorpio’s strength, and their passionate personalities will make them the best lover you can possibly have, should you make a Scorpio man fall in love. They can be either romantic, passionate and tender lovers, or they can be heartless and cold. It really depends on how you treat him. 
To better understand a Scorpio man’s personality you can read this article here.

How To Attract A Scorpio Man

So after knowing the personality traits of a Scorpio man, and what you might face when trying to win his affection, if you are still set on winning his affection there are a few things that might give you an advantage over other potential love interests. Keep these tips in mind, and you are sure to attract your Scorpio man.

1. Be genuine.

A Scorpio is intuitive and can detect the smallest amount of dishonesty. They are the masters of getting what they want, so they know the game. It is best to be genuine, no matter your personality, as that sincerity is something a Scorpio male values in his partner.

False pretenses are a big turn off for honest Scorpios, and they like to keep things 100 percent uncomplicated and honest. If you are upfront, honest, and loyal then he may just fall in love.

2. Be a mystery.

A Scorpio is a natural at attracting people. They are social creatures that are confident and have a sexual allure to them that many people can’t resist. They have people vying for their attention all the time, and it’s refreshing for him when you don’t throw yourself at the Scorpio man.

He is a curious creature who likes puzzles. Let him ask you questions, and be honest, but let him take his time in solving your mystery at his own leisure.

3. Care about your appearance.

Care about your appearance

The Scorpio sign is very conscious of their appearance. It’s part of their confidence, they are sexy and they literally know it. The Scorpio male likes to flaunt their partner, but only if their partner looks the part. Not to mention as one of Zodiac with the most sexual energy, they are naturally very sensual. The Scorpio male likes his partner to be well-groomed, well-dressed, soft and smelling good. Make your appearance obviously important to you, and the Scorpio male will notice.

4. Be confident and sexy.

Taking care of your appearance isn’t the only step you will have to take to attract a Scorpio man. Scorpios are artistic, creative and they appreciate beauty. Physical beauty is a plus, but if your mind, energy, and heart are beautiful then you will become the sexiest creature the Scorpio has ever seen.

Be adventurous, be wild, be yourself, and do it with a sexy flair. But don’t despair if you are shy. This can also be sexy to a Scorpio man. If you are quiet, you appeal to his sense of mystery, and he will find it a fun challenge to bring you out of your shell, so he can get to know the ‘real’ you.

He will find this especially appealing because he’ll take pleasure in the fact that he’s the only one who gets to know you this way.

5. Be adventurous and fun.

A Scorpio is someone who can get restless with a daily routine. Even in the bed, if something becomes routine, a Scorpio will become listless with it. Be spontaneous – but within reason as the Scorpio man likes to be prepared and plan things out.

Trying something you’ve never done, especially for the first time with a Scorpio makes him feel extremely special. It shows a sign of trust and fun from you which strokes his ego. A Scorpio on a good day is the class clown, the friend that is always making others smile and laugh, and living life to the fullest.

If a lapse happens, a Scorpio could become depressed and distant. It’s important to keep things fresh and interesting for both of you.

6. Spoil him with gifts from the heart.

Spoil him with gifts from the heart

Scorpio men love attention and they are natural pros at lapping up the attention, but if you lay it on too thick, it’s not a challenge he can enjoy. Most of all, he appreciates special sentiments that let him know you were truly thinking about him from the heart.

Homemade treats, or even seemingly little trinkets that you know are special for him in some way warms his heart. For example, if he likes Jimmy Hendrix and you see a special Jimy Hendrix zippo lighter, a gift like that alone would make his day for days to come. The Scorpio is deeply emotional, and grand gestures are great, but for him, it’s the little things that make him happiest.


I hope this article has been beneficial for those trying to attract a Scorpio man. Perhaps it helped you get a better understanding of some complicated reactions you’ve seen out of the object of your affection, and remembering these tips will help you steer his heart right into yours. Let us know what you think about this article in the comments, and if this article helps remember to like and share.

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  1. Thank you so much for sharing such an insight about scorpion man. I’m dating one and this has empowered me on how to adjust my approach on certain things and understanding his personality. I will appreciate for more information or any updates in the future.


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