What Are Guys Who Give Up On Dating Girls Thinking? (17 Possible Things)

Do you ever think, “What are guys who give up on dating girls thinking?” Today, you are in luck because that is the topic of this blog post! We’ll discuss many possible reasons why men think not dating women is a good idea. Why?

One example is guys who live with their parents. They may feel like the timing is right to be involved in casual dating. They might first want to get their own place and not have their parents lurking around while they attempt to find Ms. Right.

According to the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, there is a distinct link between the relationships we get into and the self-esteem we have. The quality of the relationships we have and their success directly affect our self-worth! That means that now is not the time to quit dating.

If you’ve been in a bad relationship in the past and don’t want to date because of that, you might consider online dating. That is a low-key way of looking for the perfect person for you. There is less pressure, and you never know who you might meet! I met my husband on OKCupid – a free online dating website. 

Let’s explore the topic more!

Possible Reasons That Guys Give Up On Love

1. They’ve been hurt too much in the past

My husband was heartbroken for a long time after his first marriage. He felt that another woman might do the same thing to him that his ex-wife did. She cheated on him after 13 years of marriage! He had been single when I met him for about six years. He told me that after his divorce, he decided he would never be with someone again.

He just couldn’t risk getting burned again. When we met, he had dated a few women, so I wasn’t exactly a rebound, but he still never wanted to get married again. Marriage was something I knew I wanted, though! We started out as friends, and our relationship grew from there. We built a great foundation of friendship, which blossomed into love.

We’ve now been together for almost a decade! We are happily married, and he doesn’t regret a thing, but he does say that it’s funny how he had decided to give up on love and was not looking for anything serious when he met me. I guess I did a great job at winning him over. We often spend time laughing about that, so don’t give up on a guy!

2. They think dating is too expensive

It does take money to date! You have to pay for restaurants, movie theaters, bowling alley dates, and vacations! Really, you must pay for anything the two of you want to do. While it’s true that many couples split the bill, the typical scenario has the guy paying for almost everything. It’s also true that you can love someone without spending money!

If money is your problem, consider doing free things. You can play board games like chess or checkers, grab a beer at your place instead of going out, make a home-cooked meal, or watch a movie you already own! You don’t have to spend a lot of cash on clubs and restaurants. Just create the environment in your home. 

Turn your home into a disco! That way, you can dance your heart out without leaving the house. You also don’t have to worry about crowds, or other people getting in the way of you having a fabulous time! Your gal may also be impressed with your creativity in finding ways to go on dates without leaving the house!

3. They believe relationships never work out

Some people just have negative attitudes when it comes to dating. They believe that love is not out there for them and that they will always be alone – no matter what they do.

4. They think girls are too high-maintenance

Some guys hate the drama that comes with dating women. Girls can be quite high-maintenance; it just comes with the territory often. Princesses expect to be treated a certain way and don’t want to lower their expectations for any guy – no matter who he is! However, not all women are like this! You should realize there is someone out there!

5. They are too shy to approach attractive women

Some men just don’t have it in them to approach women because they are terrified of humiliation and rejection. That is just part of dating, though. You have to risk getting hurt a little in order to find true love. If you are really shy, try looking at women as friends first instead of something scary. Being friends first is a great foundation for a relationship.

You can then get to know each other without too much fear. Just treat it like any friendship and learn her likes and dislikes. What is she passionate about? What turns her on? What makes her world go-'round? What was her childhood like? What kind of things interest her? Really study her to find out if she’s right for you!

By doing this, you reduce the risk of getting shut down by a woman. You will feel much more confident if you get to know someone really well before considering falling in love with her! Once you build a good foundation like this, it will also make it so much easier to ask her out! You are probably already spending tons of time together!

6. They think girls are not into them

Some men just don’t believe women are into them. They think that they just don’t have what it takes to find that perfect girl! Their negative attitudes really are a turn-off to girls. No one wants to be with someone who is down on themselves!

7. They don’t know anyone to date

they dont know anyone to date

Maybe the guy just moved into the city or neighborhood and just hasn’t had a chance to meet new people yet. If that’s the case, you might consider joining community events, doing some volunteer work, going to a local church, or something like that. You don’t have to just ask out a random person. Join a group event where you can meet people!

8. They believe they are not handsome enough

Again, people are not attracted to men who are down on themselves. If you think you don’t have what it takes to find love, you should work on your self-esteem and looks – if that’s what’s holding you back. Hit the gym and transform your body to the best of your ability. This will improve your confidence and what you believe about yourself.

9. They are too busy achieving their goals right now

Some men are just very busy with school and/or work. They are career-driven and don’t want anything to stand in the way of their dreams. Ambition is great, but you don’t want to rule out the chance of meeting Ms. Right because you were too focused on your career! What if she is a client, customer, or associate? Keep your eyes open!

10. They just want to be alone

There are many men who just don’t want to be with anyone else right now. They may have been in an abusive relationship and need some help getting over that before they can consider looking for love again. They might need to seek counseling to get over what happened to them, so they can try to date once again.

11. They don’t want to get tied down

Men are often afraid of words like “marriage” and “children” – especially if those two words are used in the same sentence! The thought of being with one person for the rest of your life is scary! You just want to protect your heart from getting broken!

12. They don’t have the energy for a relationship

Relationships do take a lot of effort if you want them to last. You have to do things that you wouldn’t have to worry about if you stayed single. For example, you’ll have to buy her a gift if she’s had a bad day or if it’s her birthday! You’ll have to be there for her when things aren’t going her way and listen to her complain about her problems.

Maybe you don’t have the time or energy to be a couple right now. You might think that things are just simpler when you are alone. This simplicity can seem very appealing to many men, so they decide to stay on their own rather than enter a relationship.

13. They want to save themselves for the right person

Often, we stop trying to find the best person for us because we don’t feel ready. Maybe you are working on self-improvement or just want to be the best version of yourself before you look for that right individual. Other times, we are ready but we want to keep ourselves open to that perfect person and not enter into the wrong attachment.

14. They believe there is no room in their life for a girl

they believe there is no room in their life for a girl

Maybe the guy’s life is full of friends and other commitments, and he simply does not have the time or energy for a woman. He’s too concerned with other things to allow a woman to take up any of his time, space, or energy.

15. They are worried they will be used

Rich men are sometimes fearful they will be used for the cash they carry in their pockets. Maybe a guy is super sweet and has a giving heart that women use him for. They take advantage of him, which makes him not want to look for love anymore! Instead, he feels like he’s better off being by himself than being with someone else.

16. They just want to play the field

Some men are just not looking for anything serious. They’d rather just see many women at the same time than to see just one. They also don’t want one woman to find out about another one, so they continue to play the field. Men like this are sometimes called “players” because they are playing around with women.

17. They are just too young for love

If you still live with your parents or just are still trying to figure out who you are, it’s understandable if you don’t want to enter into a commitment. Maybe you are not ready for love at this time and just need to find yourself. If you are in a transitionary period in your life, just work on yourself and don’t worry about women right now. 

Wait until you are ready! There’s no pressure to be with someone right now. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. You have every right to say no to dating! It’s entirely up to you how you live your life, so live it in a way that pleases you! Don’t worry about what other people say, do, or think about you! Their opinion doesn’t matter! Only yours does!

FAQs

Is it normal to give up on dating?

Yes! It’s very common, in fact! If someone has had their heartbroken, they are likely to not want to join the dating world again because they risk getting burned again. Some men just hate women after experiencing heartbreak or something like that. It’s just too risky and painful to date!

How do guys deal with breakups?

Some men withdraw because of an experience with a bad person or unrealistic expectations in previous relationships. Instead, they should not start giving up on dating yet. Long-term relationships can be quite fulfilling and wonderful! Moving forward, I would suggest looking for a special person and a good life!

Why do people just give up on relationships?

Some people hate traditional roles in relationships but feel they must comply because of how they were raised. Other people have emotional or mental issues, such as being a control freak or being afraid to talk to a beautiful woman. Many women have just been burned too many times to count!

Why does a man suddenly end a relationship?

Some men just want to live a single life or miss being single. They may have found someone new and want to start dating this person instead of the person they are in a relationship with. Relationships are a lot of work and some people just don’t have the patience anymore!

How do you know when it's time to give up on a relationship?

If you are in an abusive relationship (mental, physical, or emotional), you should end the relationship and find someone who is healthy. A relationship like that is not worth it. Don’t risk things getting out of control in a relationship and seek help if necessary.

Conclusion

While many young men do give up on love, they shouldn’t! There are many benefits to having a healthy relationship. You can live a more fulfilling life if you date around and eventually find a successful relationship with the opposite sex! Don’t give up on romantic love! Please comment!

 

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