When you’re in a relationship with your soulmate, you’ll know. There is nothing that can come close to comparing to a soulmate connection. Your chemistry will be so intense that it catches you off guard.
If you call it quits with your soulmate, it won’t take you long to realize that it’s even more intense. It can be devastating. You can get through a relationship with a soulmate ending, though.
- 1 After A Soulmate Breakup, You Need To Know These Things
- 1.1 1. Not all soulmate relationships are meant to last forever
- 1.2 2. Remember you met them at the perfect time
- 1.3 3. Soulmates often reunite
- 1.4 4. Don’t give in to everything that they want
- 1.5 5. Avoid letting them become an obsession
- 1.6 6. They aren’t the key to happiness
- 1.7 7. Some soulmates are not good for you
- 1.8 8. It’s not a once in a lifetime connection
- 1.9 9. Believe in fate
- 2 FAQs
- 3 To Sum Up
After A Soulmate Breakup, You Need To Know These Things
When you are first dealing with the situation, the feelings will be so strong that you can’t think rationally. You’ll want to do everything you can to get back together. Deep down, you’ll question if you’ll ever find someone like that again. Take a deep breath. You guys broke up and may get back together. Even though your heart is breaking, remember these things.
1. Not all soulmate relationships are meant to last forever
When you first think of a soulmate, you more than likely envision someone that you will spend the rest of your life with.
Not every soulmate is meant to be in your life forever, though. We all have more than one soulmate, and they come into our lives for different reasons. One soulmate might be there to encourage growth. Another could be in our lives to teach us life lessons.
2. Remember you met them at the perfect time
Sometimes, the timing can seem wrong. You meet a wonderful person to discover that they aren’t ready to leave their wife yet. Perhaps they are preparing to move across the country, and you know that this situation will wind up breaking your heart long before it does.
You didn’t meet them at the wrong time. A soulmate will never cross your path at the wrong time. They came into your life to teach you something or give you something you needed at the time. Instead, keep in mind that you and your soulmate met each other at the perfect time. If you are meant to be together, you’ll find your way back to each other.
3. Soulmates often reunite
It’s very common for soulmates to come back together. Such a relationship is hard to come by, and both of you know that. Because of this, you will usually find your way back to each other. One person might need time to heal, so you may not see them for a while.
When soulmates reunite, it’s not always to form a romantic relationship. Sometimes, the two of you may come back together as best friends. One way or another, you can trust that if someone is truly your soulmate, you will find your way back to each other again. Just because the relationship didn’t work out doesn’t mean that the connection is lost.
4. Don’t give in to everything that they want
It can be tempting to throw your boundaries out the window when it comes to your soulmate. You’ve never met someone like this, so you want to do anything possible to make it work. Don’t. You’ll be miserable in the relationship. Instead, simply trust that everything will work out the way that it is meant to.
5. Avoid letting them become an obsession
They feel like a once-in-a-lifetime person. When you’re not together, you can’t help but think about them. This can quickly turn into an unhealthy obsession.
Find new hobbies and keep yourself busy to move on. Delete them on social media. Make it impossible to be completely obsessed with them.
6. They aren’t the key to happiness
Nothing can break your heart like a soulmate suddenly leaving. It will feel as though every part of your being is breaking. Your heart will be left in tattered pieces. That makes it so much harder to find your way back to being happy.
Because of this, most people wind up feeling as though they won’t be truly happy without this person in their life. Remind yourself that this simply isn’t true. You’ll find your way back to who you used to be once you make it through the pain.
7. Some soulmates are not good for you
When we think of a soulmate we imagine living happily ever after in pure bliss. That’s because a soulmate will bring out all of the amazing things about you. They make everything so intense. That is what happens when a soulmate brings out the best.
There’s a dark side to a soulmate that people don’t always talk about. They make the bad aspects more intense too. Being in a relationship with a soulmate can be so intense that it brings out evil aspects of your soul that you never knew existed.
In these situations, you have to understand that it’s best not to make things work. Instead, you both need to go your separate ways until you can magnify the positive in each other.
8. It’s not a once in a lifetime connection
When I met my first soulmate, I was lucky. I was young. As a teenager, I thought that it was a once-in-a-lifetime connection. I was under the impression that no one could compare to them. It was so intense, so toxic, that I couldn’t let it continue. I resigned myself to a life of being single because I thought there was no other person in the world I would have that connection with.
I was so unbelievably wrong. Over the course of several years, I met several soulmates. Every time I felt drawn to someone, I wanted to get to know them. I craved that connection like it was a drug and I was addicted.
That’s how I discovered that there are so many soulmates you will meet in a lifetime. Sometimes they are friends. Other times a fling. Then, there are those long-term relationships. If you just broke up with a soulmate, don’t fret. You’ll meet another one. Life is full of them.
9. Believe in fate
I think this is why I don’t take a breakup too seriously anymore. I get hurt when relationships end. I work through that hurt. At the same time, I feel very strongly that everything happens for a reason. Whether I know it or not, the relationship was exactly how it was meant to be. That person was in my life for the perfect amount of time.
I also believe very strongly that everything in life is a lesson or a blessing, even if we don’t know it at the time. For example, that first soulmate. The relationship was so violent most people simply prayed that we never got back together. It was too intense for either of us to handle.
It was such a blessing though. I learned to set boundaries. We both learned how to communicate. I discovered what I did, and did not, want in a future relationship. Over the years, we’ve learned more from each other through an on-and-off relationship. It all happened for a reason. That relationship was never meant to last forever.
Yes, they do. The connection between two soulmates is never broken. The chemistry doesn’t fade away as it does with other people. You’ll both randomly come into each other’s lives over and over again. You’ll find them again through the most unexpected things.
No, they don’t. Sometimes, they wind up as friends. Other times you won’t see them again until you’re meant to. This might be years down the road. Don’t stress over this. Simply trust that these relationships span over a period of time that they are already meant to.
Yes, they can. Often, they do. A soulmate relationship doesn’t end because you guys say that it’s over. You might have a soulmate relationship with them later as friends. You may also completely avoid each other until you’re emotionally ready for that connection.
Yes, they can. Deep down, you know what your soulmate is going through. You can feel it in your heart when they’re going through hard times in life. Some people feel all of their soulmate's emotions. What you feel depends on how deep the connection to each other is. When you’re in a soulmate relationship, those feelings are even more intense.
When it’s final, it’s usually final long before you call it quits. Parting ways doesn’t hurt as much. You’re already thinking about someone new. It was a little too easy to let go of those old rituals. The easier it is to move on, the more final it is.
To Sum Up
It’s common for soulmates to call it quits only to try again later. These off and on again situations are surprisingly common when two people are connected like soulmates are. Have you met a soulmate yet? What happened?
As hopeless romantic I struggled tremendously in my love life. After many years of searching, trial & error, and countless failed relationships, I finally found my Mr. Right. It wasn't an easy road, but one that has taught me an incredible amount about the workings of relationships between men and women, and this is what I hope to share through my writing on this blog.